Welcome to our interactive Q&As where you can ask any question that you may feel embarrassed or uneasy to ask anyone else. Please keep topics to areas we work within, e.g sexual health, general health and wellbeing, male health, sexuality, etc.

We try to answer as many questions as we can, but members of the public are also able to offer their solution/advice too, and views are entirely those of the people who post.

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Chlamydia, impotence and infertility

hello i am a 29 year old male, lately my libido has diminished as well as my potency has reduced to near impotence. Actually i can hardly have full erection and maintain it long like i used to. However, what worries most is that i could've lived with the horrible chlamydia for more than a year. I am worried to near death that it has turned me impotent as well as infertile. how long is "if left untreated for long"? please do advice me.

Asked by anonymous (aged 29)
25th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: horny dysfunction erection chlamydia

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hi, from your message it's clear you need to get checked out for clamydia if for no other reason that to put your mind at rest. Go to your local STD / STI / sexual health clinic (if you're in the UK you can find your closest clinic by following this link) where they will test you and treat you if you have it. If you are in UK you might be able to get a home testing kit with follow-up support.





The general advice seems to be to test each year or change of sexual partner, which would indicate that serious infertility issues take longer to emerge. As you say it has been more than a year you really should get tested.





Impotency does not seem to be associated with chlamydia and it may instead be caused by your worrying: so get tested and treated if necessary, and this will probably help with your libido issues too. Remember also the other things that can affect libido, like smoking, diet, exercise, stress, alcohol and medication. A healthy body helps build a healthy sex life. 



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Answered by team member Douglas
25th January 2016

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Shake penis

I shake my penis one day five time..correct or not

Asked by Rajeswaran (aged 22) from Malaysia
11th April 2016 (in Health)

Tags: penis

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Someone tuch my pain I lose my sperm quickly

hello, I am 25 years old man, I have very high expectations about sex, when I am with my girlfriend start kissing or huging, I get soft erection, and white liquid comes out of my penis, we keep kissing and when my girlfriend is ready for sexy my penis is soft.

Asked by Sumit (aged 26) from India
19th August 2016 (in Health)

Tags: penis ejaculation premature ejaculation erection gay

Hi my name is ken and am 24 years old. I masturbate about 2-3 times a week just to get penis increase. My penis size currently is about 4.3 inches in length. I really want to grow length and girth and I have tried jelking and penis stretches. I haven't seen a change. I have been doing it for about 3 months with no change. I just get frustrated when I see no change and I rarely want to have sex but my premature ejaculation coupled with my small penis wouldn't allow me enjoy sex .this and more have been my worries until i came in contact with dr.joefel through a friend he had help before and since i contacted him my sex life changed , i grown tremendous increase in my penis and i last longer during sex all thanks to dr.joefel who sent me his herbs which i used for just 3weeks..contact him now and save your self the stress via dr.joefelspiritualtemple@gmail.com or through his company email adonkoherbalmixture@gmail.com you can also call or add him up on whats-app via +2348139452225..thanks

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Answered by kennedy
1st September 2016

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Sperm like water

When i masturbated today,first time in couple of weeks,my sperm was like water,i had sex with my partner last sunday,and am finding it hard to get aroused resently,and its putting a strain on my relationship.

Asked by jason (aged 44) from United Kingdom
10th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: ejaculation erection masturbation

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Everyone goes though these periods and it can be caused by a variety of factors. Firstly talk with your partner and explain this is happening. It's possible life has just got in the way of sex and emotional life and you need to reconnect again; also try focusing on other parts of each others bodies. Try not to let it worry you, its a normal thing, it is worth looking at your diet, drinking, exercise and stress levels. We need a healthy and fit body to have the best from sex too. See our section with tips of how to manage your health. We hope this helps: let us know if the problems persist, or see your family doctor they can help with physical checks and counselling. 





As to your watery sperm, a persons cum can vary in many ways including volume, thickness and colour and is also affected by your diet and general well being, from your description it does not sound like something to worry about. 



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Answered by team member Douglas
11th January 2016

Hello, I was in the same boat as you about six month ago.i began to search for a solution I had no idea what to believe online because everything seems to be an advertisement.I actually read a personal review about Vigrx plus for male enhancement and sexual dysfunction solution product and it seemed like the person had a great success using the product to cure watery sperm and arousal(libido}problem , so i gave it a try. I couldn't have been more excited about the results as it totally eliminated my watery sperm problems.The article was very helpful to me. If you want to check the it out yourself you can read it here http://www.monthdiet.com/2016/04/how-to-get-big-dick-vigrx-plus-review_3.htm

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Answered by john
5th April 2016

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Sperm is not coming from penis while masturbation

hi i am 21 year old. sperm are not coming from penis when i masturbation but when i sleep in bed and when there is erection i rub my penis againsts bed for 4-5 min i got my sperm. whats the promblem why sperm doesn't come when i masturbation? please have me solution

Asked by sam (aged 21) from India
22nd April 2016 (in Health)

Tags: penis ejaculation erection masturbation

Hello i am 24 year old.during erection when i shake my penish for long time dperm doesnot come outside.what should i fo?is it ok or not ok?tell me the solution plzzzzx

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Answered by joy
25th April 2016

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My penis gets errect at night and ejects sperm

When ever am in deep sleep my penis gets errects and sperm comes out

Asked by Ritesh (aged 28) from India
28th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: penis ejaculation gay

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hi, this is a totally normal thing to happen and shows that you are healthy and everything is working normally. When we dream our bodies react to the dreams and we can get hard-ons / erections and sometimes ejaculate (sperm comes out) as well. There is nothing to worry about, even if it is sometimes inconvenient. You could try wanking / masturbating before going to sleep this sometimes reduces sperm coming out while you sleep.



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Answered by team member Douglas
29th January 2016

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Spontaneous ejaculation

When I'm anxious or excited I quite often have a spontaneous ejaculation. It can be as simple as a stressful email at work, or if I think I'm going to miss the bus or something. I'm not saying that it happens every time something like that happens, but it does happen quite often, maybe a couple of times a month. I don't have an erection or anything when it happens. It can be quite awkward if I'm talking to someone or something, and I can't get to the toilet in time. This has been happening for years, on and off (I'm 35 now and I think it first happened during my exams, so I think it is more mental than physical). I take a spare pair of boxer shorts to work because of it, it happens so often. This doesn't happen when I have sexual thoughts, but I have a couple of sort of fetishes which can set it off. So, should I be worried? Anything I can do?

Asked by Dave
10th June 2009 (in Health)

Tags: ejaculation premature ejaculation erection

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hi Dave,

Thanks for coming to us with your concern. This is obviously a serious problem for you, effecting you not only physically, but mentally and no doubt emotionally as well. There are many factors to take into consideration when trying to understand what the cause of spontaneous ejaculation could be, from physical to psychological to stimulation and medication, among other things. Though you've given a description of your problem, there are still many questions to be asked in order to get an idea which direction one would need to look for an answer.

Sometimes, these kind of problems can be linked to issues with an enlarged prostate, however, this generally happens to older men, and, as this has been going on since what appears to be your teens, it's probably not likely. Some medications (including antidepressants) can have the side effect of spontaneous ejaculation. It could be something as simple as too much stimulation that you're not aware of. Perhaps if you switched to briefs instead of boxers it might help. It is difficult to advise you with any kind of certainty as to the definate cause. The best course of action is for you to visit your GP who will be able to take a medical history and ask all the necessary questions, before advising you in this case. Hope this helps. Please let us know the outcome, as we are very curious ourselves.

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Answered by team member Mara
29th September 2010

Ok, thanks for your reply, not sure if I should be flattered or concerned that I seem to be a medical curiosity! I'm not sure if I want to bother a doctor about this, as aside from the embarrassment of describing it face to face it does not seem to be life threatening. I was sort of hoping it was common and only I did not know about it! If I do go to the Doctors and they can tell me exactly what is going on I will let you know.

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Answered by Dave
30th September 2010

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Well, we wouldn't call you a medical curiosity, but it would be interesting to know what the underlying cause is, especially in case anyone else came along who suffered the same problem! As for bothering your doctor, don't worry about that, you have a genuine concern. It would be best to have this looked at sooner rather than later. Though the condition may not bother you now, it may become more difficult to cope with as you age. From what you describe, it doesn't seem to show signs of letting up. GP's are used to patients being uncomfortable with discussing certain issues and should handle the situation professionally in a way to put you at ease. Men can be notoriously reluctant to visit medical professionals when it comes to their health... So, it's part of our job to give you a gentle nudge to make that dreaded appointment... We look forward to hearing from you again!

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Answered by team member Mara
30th September 2010

I am on doxycyclene right now for a testicular infection. upon taking the second pill this morning I had two spontaneous full on orgasms within 15 mins of each other. I have never had this happen before.Maybe you should get checked out.You may have a simple to cure infection.Im going to check with my GP to make sure this is normal.

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Answered by steve
18th January 2013

Hi, it's very interesting to read your mail. I also have spontaneous ejacualtions sometimes. They can happen anytime anywhere ... and can be embarrassing too, so I really understand how you feel. I "deal with it" the same way, bring extra underwear and change. I didnt want to ask the Dr as it's not like I'm sick or anything. I?m just trying to get on with it

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Answered by Luke
2nd June 2013

This sort of thing happens to me too (almost). It's only ever full on happened twice and both times it was when I was rushing to get something done. The first was in 8th grade (yeah...) trying to finish an art project before the bell rang. Luckily it was the end of the day and I had dark pants but it happened again freshman year of high school trying to finish an essay before the bell. It was 2nd period and I was wearing khakis. How there was no stain was a miracle. But every so often when I'm in a situation with high anxiety (performing, pressured situations of waiting, being with a girl I'm not comfortable around) I can feel it about to happen and a little leaks out. I usually dig my nails into my palms, arms, and back of my hands, hoping I can focus on the pain to reduce the feeling of ejaculation. I'm 19 going on 20 now and I want to know how to stop this because it BLOWS.

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Answered by Erik
6th August 2013

I had the same problem during my teens. My first experience was during exams, the last minute and haven't finished writing. I shot a load on my pants and had to rush to the toilet and deliberately spoil water over my pants to disguise it. Now I'm 40 and never had it since although I have had close encounters.... I thought I was the only one and this its my first tonne I've seek answers about. Unfortunately seemingly there's no medical explanation of the cause.

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Answered by Bhutini
13th August 2013

Hi, I had this happen to me when I was teenager now 50, but it use to happen to me while taking an exam. During final minutes and I had not finish yet, just the rush of not being done yet and they wher e going to take the tests away from us would make me heave an orgasm. Sometimes more than one. I'll say that it wasn't unpleasant, by the contrary I enjoyed it. It continued during college. Now not anymore since I dont take tests, but I wish I could feel this again. I have searched for other thrills, but nothing compares to the test taking. Just my grain of salt

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Answered by Bukake
15th November 2013

yes i have had the same problem for years, but much worse, and it has

affected my career. I've seen a neurologist about it who said it was

similar to premature ejaculation (but it isnt sexually aroused), but

there is a new medication out now called silodosin, after a case in

Japan.



I first had a spontaneous ejaculation at 14 in an exam. No sexual

thoughts are involved. After that, all my exams were suspect, and it

happened several other times, forcing me to take extra clothes to

school. It then spread to public speaking, where i have had to curtail

my career. At university i couldnt do any presentations, despite being

an able student and good speaker. I am now in my 40s.



The problem doesnt respond to efforts to reduce, despite much effot,

as i think it acts much like sweating, it is a physical neurological

response to a stimuli, usually fear or stress, much like the body

responds to heat with sweat. In my view it is not curable once

learned. fear or it occurring is enough for it to occur. Fear of

ejaculation-causes ejaculation.



The medical establishment is not very aware of this problem, but there

is a paper about the drug silodosin which someone directed me to,

which makes dry ejaculations, which at least stops the wetness and

odour.

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Answered by thingadonta1
15th February 2016

There are a lot of real stories like yours, with orgasms induced by stress during exams. It is not a medical case, in my humble opinion, it is more a very nice gift of our mind/body while we are in a very difficult situation.

It happened to me several times during one or two hours, when I was 11 or 12, being very scarred that my bike was stolen by a friend, who actually asked me to let him have a ride with my new bike. He was gone for 15-20 min, and I started to be very anxious/scared, and suddenly a very pleasurable feeling in my pants, even without erection, gave me a strong orgasm... It was sooo good that I had to touch my penis trying somehow to stop it. And after several more minutes another one came, intense, and another one... countless orgasms, without feeling exhausted as when I cum during masturbation. Finally, when my friend came back with my bike, I was a bit sad that the pleasurable experience stopped.

Another story of these non-sexual and non-masturbating orgasms of mine was the intense climax during climbing a pole in the school yard, again at the age of 12 approx. There was no touching of my penis to the pole, no rubbing at all, nit even erection. This was more easy to reproduce, and even tell to my best friends how good it feels if you try to climb the pole several times. Later, when I was around 14, I Climbed again that pole, late in the afternoon, when nobody was looking, and when suddenly the good intense feeling approached, very quickly I took out my penis from the short pants and ejaculated in the air...

There was also no erection, no sex thoughts, nothing. Just a pure orgasm coming from nowhere.

I believe we are special and lucky to experience such feelings.

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Answered by Dan
11th August 2016

Same thing happened to me when I was 14 yo. I am 57 yo male.

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Answered by anonymous
10th September 2016

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Suffering from semen leakage and hair fall

Sir/maam i started masterbating when i was about 11.... I was masterbating once or twice every day and sometimes after a week.. But when i became 14 i started loosing hair and gaining alot of pimples... So i completely stopped it completely or i did it once in 2 months.... I continued this 2 years... But still i was getting night falls... Now I'm 18 pimples are controlled a bit but hair fall is still the same..... I dont talk with girls... Whenever i watch or think about sexual things something water like fluid comes out everytime.... And whenever i masterbate from the next day onwards whenever i poop semen comes out and also whenever i woke up ..... Please help me I'm very worried about I'm losing my self confidence because of this thing and hair loss

Asked by PC (aged 18)
29th May 2016 (in Health)

Tags: precum ejaculation masturbation gay

Hi my name is ken and am 24 years old. I masturbate about 2-3 times a week just to get penis increase. My penis size currently is about 4.3 inches in length. I really want to grow length and girth and I have tried jelking and penis stretches. I haven't seen a change. I have been doing it for about 3 months with no change. I just get frustrated when I see no change and I rarely want to have sex but my premature ejaculation coupled with my small penis wouldn't allow me enjoy sex .this and more have been my worries until i came in contact with dr.joefel through a friend he had help before and since i contacted him my sex life changed , i grown tremendous increase in my penis and i last longer during sex all thanks to dr.joefel who sent me his herbs which i used for just 3weeks..contact him now and save your self the stress via dr.joefelspiritualtemple@gmail.com or through his company email adonkoherbalmixture@gmail.com you can also call or add him up on whats-app via +2348139452225..thanks

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Answered by kennedy
1st September 2016

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Watery fluid coming out of my penis

Sir I am a 20 year old boy. Sir I am suffering from a sexual problem. whenever I walk with my girlfriend or have simple chat with her or when I read a sex related article a watery fluid comes out of my penis. Because of this my bones have become very weak and I feel sleepy. Sir please help me to come out of this problem it is really giving me a tough time.

Asked by anonymous (aged 20) from India
31st January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: penis gay

Same problem is here ..

Plzz tell me solution.

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Answered by anonymous
1st February 2016

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hello the fluid that is coming out of your penis is called precum and is the body's natural lubricant. It is totally normal for a person to have precum when they are with someone they find sexy or read about sexy things. Do not worry, this is not causing you any health problems, in fact it is a very natural and healthy thing to happen. 





If you are feeling tired and weak, look at other aspects of  your life. Are you stressed about work or family? Is your diet worse than it should be? Are you getting enough exercise? These things are more likely to make you feel, weak and sleepy. A few changes to your lifestyle may make you feel a lot better. 



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Answered by team member Douglas
2nd February 2016

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Masturbation from a long time ago

I am 25 years old weight 134 kg height 6 ft I think I m masturbating when I was 12 years old now I feel very tired after it I remain flaccid all time is I have loose my sex power ns what should I do to make myself strong fr sex

Asked by anonymous
18th March 2016 (in Health)

Tags: masturbation

Hello, I was in the same boat as you about six month ago.i began to search for a solution I had no idea what to believe online because everything seems to be an advertisement.I actually read a personal review about Vigrx plus for male enhancement and sexual dysfunction solution product and it seemed like the person had a great success using the product to cure tiredness, low sex drive , so i gave it a try. I couldn't have been more excited about the results as it totally eliminated my sexual problems and got my groove back.The article was very helpful to me. If you want to check the it out yourself you can read it here http://www.monthdiet.com/2016/04/how-to-get-big-dick-vigrx-plus-review_3.htm

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Answered by nappy guy
5th April 2016

Hello, I was in the same boat as you about six month ago.i began to search for a solution I had no idea what to believe online because everything seems to be an advertisement.I actually read a personal review about Vigrx plus for male enhancement and sexual dysfunction solution product and it seemed like the person had a great success using the product to cure tiredness, low sex drive , so i gave it a try. I couldn't have been more excited about the results as it totally eliminated my sexual problems and got my groove back.The article was very helpful to me. If you want to check the it out yourself you can read it here http://www.monthdiet.com/2016/04/how-to-get-big-dick-vigrx-plus-review_3.htm

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Answered by nappy guy
5th April 2016

Hello, I was in the same boat as you about six month ago.i began to search for a solution I had no idea what to believe online because everything seems to be an advertisement.I actually read a personal review about Vigrx plus for male enhancement and sexual dysfunction solution product and it seemed like the person had a great success using the product to cure tiredness, low sex drive , so i gave it a try. I couldn't have been more excited about the results as it totally eliminated my sexual problems and got my groove back.The article was very helpful to me. If you want to check the it out yourself you can read it here http://www.monthdiet.com/2016/04/how-to-get-big-dick-vigrx-plus-review_3.htm

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Answered by nappy guy
5th April 2016

Hello, I was in the same boat as you about six month ago.i began to search for a solution I had no idea what to believe online because everything seems to be an advertisement.I actually read a personal review about Vigrx plus for male enhancement and sexual dysfunction solution product and it seemed like the person had a great success using the product to cure tiredness, low sex drive , so i gave it a try. I couldn't have been more excited about the results as it totally eliminated my sexual problems and got my groove back.The article was very helpful to me. If you want to check the it out yourself you can read it here http://www.monthdiet.com/2016/04/how-to-get-big-dick-vigrx-plus-review_3.htm

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Answered by nappy guy
5th April 2016

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Want to sperm more and more

Hi,I have been masterbating since last year but only a few drops of sperm cums out and it comes out too soon.what could be done to increase my sperm count?

Asked by rocky (aged 15) from India
2nd February 2016 (in Other)

Tags: precum ejaculation masturbation gay

Hey guys,I just had sex just few minutes back but what shocked me is I had my 1st and my second round very well but on my third my penis just went dead in the midst of the round.So I want to know if this is normal/its a sickness or what cause am really concerned about it

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Answered by Kick Smack
7th February 2016

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Headache during sex

The other day me and mynlady were going at it really hard, right b4 I was about to ejaculate I got a headache so I had to stop. This has happened 4 times. Why do I get headaches

Asked by Alessandro (aged 36) from United States
9th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: ejaculation erection

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

During sex our blood pressure rises, this may be causing your headaches. You should visit your family Doctor and talk to him about getting headaches during sex, if you can’t say sex at least say during strenuous exercise and have your blood pressure checked. You should do this as soon as you can. 



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Answered by team member Douglas
11th January 2016

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Masturbation

does masturbation result in protein loss and effect our body building?

Asked by arka (aged 23)
29th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: masturbation

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

The simple answer is no. Spunk does contain a very small amount of protein but tiny compared to the intake of protein in a normal diet. You can masturbate without worry: it will not affect your body building.



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Answered by team member Douglas
29th January 2016

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When I do potty then my genetic material come from my penis

Sir there is a problem occur with my penis is that when I do potty then my genetic material come from my penis. By this problem I feel alone and shame on me. And it's also itching in my penis. And before 2 3 days ago the genetic material come from my anal. And my backbone has also a pain due to this please help me sir

Asked by Bhagat (aged 19) from India
12th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: penis

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hello, please try not feel alone or shamed, almost every man has had some kind problems with his body and sexual parts. Looking for and getting help is the right thing to do. Every doctor will have see and spoken to men about problems with there penis and anal area, they will help you talk about it and find the right treatment for you. 





I do think you need to visit a doctor or a sexual health clinic if you have them in your area, especially if you have had sex with another person. Please let us know how you get on and what services you find in your area, I am sure others in India would like to learn from your experience too.



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Answered by team member Douglas
12th January 2016

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Involuntary / spontaneous orgasms

I'm 16 years old male and I'm very serious about this. When I'm mildly anxious quite often have a spontaneous ejaculation. So basically every time I am writing an exam, i wear so much in my pants to hide this now, pants > shorts > underwear. I use to be pretty normal, school ends go to the park and play with friends. Now I cannot enjoy music or watching movies or any other activities as much as I used to. I don?t even care for regular social contact with friends or family anymore. This didn't all mysteriously happen, when I was 14 years old I had to get an appendix surgery, I know this is a very common procedure and happens so many times but after the surgery It was difficult to pee but it eventually got normal and I kept feeling physical arousal at my penis, like hypersensitivity slight movements would trigger it, I didn't really know how to explain it back then so i didn't even mention it. In school one day we had a test, I studied hard for it and there was like one question that i found difficult and my anxiety nerve went up mildy and that mildy made me spontaneous ejaculate. I was so distressed that day and felt so uncomfortable that something like that can happen without any control on my part. I told my dad and we went to an MD, refered to an urologist. The urologist which I waited so many months for said I was normal(do i have to record this for him or what!) yet I still get spontaneous ejaculations and hypersensitivity constantly. This is so embarrassing and i don't know what to do anymore. I also cant do presentation, luckily my doctor sent a document to my school that says i have extreme anxiety that excludes me from doing presentations (i don't but they aren't going to say spontaneous orgasm so im okay with it). What do i do? I came across this while searching i think he explained what happens during a test much better then i did: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskDocs/comments/2uwgak/spontaneous_ejaculationorgasm_or_due_to_stress/ it is literally this, i messaged the op but it seems that account is inactive i hope he replies i asked him if he has fixed it somehow. I'm very desperate and i feel the medical system has failed me. My urologist would just lecture me how im at that age where i get "wet dreams and body development" and stuff i already knew. I don't know what else to do? See another doctor? See another urologist? See a psychologist?

Asked by Adrian (aged 16) from Canada
20th March 2016 (in Health)

Tags: penis ejaculation premature ejaculation erection gay testing

Hi, you may read my post (Dan) on a similar topic here:

http://www.wsmsh.org.uk/qa/question/spontaneous-ejaculation/

I think we are lucky!

Apart of the little wet mess in our underwear, there is no need to worry about. Enjoy the nice feeling...

Do you have more than one orgasm during one exam? After you are done (with the pleasure) do you feel ok going to finish the exam?

I also had/have countless wet dreams in which I am dreaming to be at school exams, loosing the train or missing the flight.

Again, I think we are a lucky minority. You may share your story with your girlfriend (or boyfriend) and I am sure she/he will get very aroused. It would be the perfect foreplay.

I am also sure that after you will start your sex life with a partner, these exam orgasm will diminish. At least when you will finish your school. You will miss the pleasure...

And I absolutely advise NOT to go to another doctor. You (we) are perfectly normal!

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Answered by Dan
12th August 2016

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Penis is not standing himself or hard its so soft.

I have over night sperming problem for long time. I also use for intimate for many time at a time 3 turns continues but its now cannot open or stand hard. Im worries

Asked by shan (aged 23) from Pakistan
13th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: penis erection

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hello, the things you are experiencing are quite normal and really nothing to worry about though I appreciate thats easier said that done. Sperming (ejaculating) at night is a very common experience for a young man, many have found wanking (masturbating) before going to bed can reduce this. 





One question: do you know if your penis is hard when you sperm in the night? If so it shows everything is functioning ok and that it is not a physical issue when you are sometimes not hard when you are intimate with someone. 





When you are with your partner try to focus on other parts of each others bodies, and build up the excitement so it's more exciting for you. Also talk about your worries with them. Try not to let it worry you: its a normal thing and will soon get better.





It is worth looking at your diet, drinking, exercise and stress levels. We need a healthy and fit body to have the best from sex too. See our section with tips of how to manage your health. I hope this helps.



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Answered by team member Douglas
15th January 2016

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Hi wen i have sex suddenly ...

Hi wen i have sex suddenly i got blood from penis sudenly the outer layer skin and inner layer skin attached was separate now no mood wat i want to do

Asked by Rock (aged 26) from India
10th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: penis

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hello, It is a little bit difficult to advise you with the information you have given. If this is something new it is probably not a problem and the blood is just from the sex and can happen so don’t worry. If it happens more often then get back to us. I would also think/guess the skin sticking is just from the blood and cum drying out, a gentle wash with soap and water (in a shower or bath if possible) will help it unstick. You should wash under the foreskin every time you wash. I hope this helps.



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Answered by team member Douglas
11th January 2016

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HIV infection

I mistakenly sleep with a girl and I wore condom, but I ddint check the expiration date YET the condom is in good shape. Also, my pennis didn't elect at all. I put my penis into her pussy n did the work for about 1 minute. As my penis did not erect I stopped it. Is there any chance I get infected by HIV?

Asked by JD (aged 26) from Cambodia
1st January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: penis penis size sti hiv

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

It is very unlikely that you have got infected by HIV, you did everything as safely as possible by using the condom. It sounds like it would be useful for you to practice putting a condom on and wanking / masturbating with a condom as this might help you stay stay erect when using one in the future. If you are still worried about HIV or other sexually transmitted infections you should visit a sexual health clinic or STD clinic. Condoms are often free from clinics too. 



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Answered by team member Douglas
11th January 2016

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Penis gets erects too quickly...

I am 24 years old Bisexual adult. Whenever I sleep beside boyfriend or girlfriend my penis gets erects too quickly OR whenever cuddle each other my penis rises too fast. This is very embarrassing. How can I control this erection?

Asked by Dan (aged 24) from Pakistan
15th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: penis premature ejaculation erection

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

This is a totally normal reaction to being with someone you are sexually attracted to. The best way to overcome your embarrassment is to smile and talk to your partners about it. Explain that having an erection doesn’t mean you have to have sex but just shows how much you like them. The only thing that may help reduce your erections is to try and think of something non sexy when you feel an erection coming. 



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Answered by team member Douglas
18th January 2016

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Producing sperms everyday without sex

Doctor iam producing sperms without sex i want to know that if i produce sperms everyday in future any side effects will be faced by me or after marriage i can satisfy my wife or not?

Asked by Puppy (aged 17) from Kuwait
22nd December 2015 (in Health)

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

This is quite common, especially in younger men, sometimes it is a bit of precum (a natural lubricant) when you're thinking about sexy things or it can be a full cumming, orgasm / production of sperms. This is totally natural and is nothing to worry about and it will not cause any problems to you later in life. In fact is shows everything is working as it should do in a young man.



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Answered by team member Douglas
11th January 2016