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Can cialis cause involuntary pre-ejaculation fluids at anytime without any sexual thoughts?

Asked by anonymous on 26th February 2017 (in Health) • Views: 206

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Penis ejaculate even though didn't do anything

Hi there, I'm 22 and am wondering, recently I discovered that my penis ejaculate even though I didn't do anything to it (This includes masturbating) for the past few days. At home playing games, outside hanging out with friends, going to school, and sometimes it just ejaculate. Is it a sign of unhealthiness?

Asked by Yat (aged 22) from Singapore on 28th January 2016 (in Sex) edited by MSH • Views: 492

Tags: penis ejaculation gay

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

I think you are talking about a goo called precum which men can produce whenever we are sexually aroused; and this can happen a lot when we are young (even when we don’t realise we are thinking about sex). It is a natural lubricant: sticky and generally clear. This is different from ejaculating which feels much more physical and tends to come in several bursts and is usually a creamy white and can be lumpy. 

If you have had sex with other people and you are leaking a yellowy green pus-like fluid and it stings when you piss (urinate) you may have an infection and you should visit a sexual health clinic or see a doctor.

But from your description I don’t worry that there is anything wrong and it actually shows you are fit and well.

1 0Answered by team member Douglas 29th January 2016 (edited 13th Feb 2016)

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Gelatine lumps in semen

For the last six months I have been noticing these gelatine lumps in my semen, I can feel them coming out during ejaculation, I've had a sti test and it was negative over the months it has started to get worse now I get a mild pain before ejaculation and my semen is thick almost gel like I am very concerned and have also noticed white pearly penile papules around my penis any idea what it might be. Diet? Infection? Irregular ejaculation?

Asked by Ricky on 10th June 2009 (in Health) • Views: 794972

Tags: penis penis size gelatine ejaculation gay testing sti

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Thank you for getting in touch with us here at Men's Sexual Health. Firstly there's a wide range of texture, odor, and taste in normal and healthy semen. There is even variation in color, including opaque white, transparent, and yellowish. This can be caused by a variety of factors such as diet, lifestyle and alcohol consumption and even lack of regular ejaculations. This is a common question asked on our Q&A, so please do not feel alone, a lot of men have suffered from this issue. From our knowledge, sometimes the causes of jelly-like sperm is the massive concentration of protein compound of your sperm in your testicular sperm bank, usually those teens that masturbate actively for years and suddenly refrain from doing it have a greater chance of having this stuff(though its normal). Because during the time your still active in masturbation your testicles produces more sperm so it needs sugar and protein to produce a liquid substances wherein your sperm swam. So your brain may senses that during your frequent masturbation or sex maybe, it send a message to your testicles to produce more of these substances. Consequently, to the certain point of time you did not masturbate for along period, the sperm and protein base liquid in your testicles may over reproduce and the tendency of this if you were unable to let it ejaculate, it will accumulate in your testicles and becomes highly concentrated. Subsequently this causes your sperm to look like a jelly - like substance...its normal as long its color varies from white to yellowish and no blood or black or green. Some people find drinking more water, drinking less alcohol and masterbating more often sometimes solves the problem. You say you went for an STI test, did you discuss with the clinic about your sperm issue and what did they suggest? The fact that you are experiencing pain however we would suggest you see you local GP/Doctor to discuss this further to rule out any other underlying condition. Regarding your white pearly penile papules, the fact you know what they are called shows you have done your research. This are perfectly normal, nearly all men have these, some have more and bigger than others, this are just the glans of the penis and should not be worries about, again the fact you have had a STI test confirms these are unlikely to be anything other than your glans. Please do get back in touch if things don't improve.

44 22Answered by team member Matt 30th January 2013 (edited 11th Apr 2017)

But sometimes I feel a little. Itching around the cap I thought it was infection but I got treated then I got this tiny rough pause on my cap what can this be because I did blood test and I was okay

17 18Answered by patrick (member of the public) 31st July 2014 (edited 4th Dec 2016)

Ty for clearing this up as I have the same issue and was rather concerned

9 14Answered by mercer (member of the public) 25th August 2015 (edited 4th Dec 2016)

i fel the same way too. i masturbate 3 times a week then one day i notice a yellowish in my cum too.

11 17Answered by papado (member of the public) 14th November 2015 (edited 4th Dec 2016)

I think best answer is available on

34 20Answered by Dowell48 (member of the public) 26th November 2015 (edited 23rd Apr 2017)

thanks for the answer i was having the same issues

10 8Answered by dalton (member of the public) 4th January 2016 (edited 4th Dec 2016)

You hit the nail on the head. I was a horny lil fucker my teen years and i was really familiar with the attic. Then i was hospitalized in my late 20's and also became depressed. Consequently my right hand man and i slowly drifted apart. As things got increasing better " purchased a smart phone, with clear picture and sound. Lets just say I wasn't haveing trouble keeping myself enertained when i had some free time. But as stated especially my first time, if i had milk and a GOOD vanilla... well i guess now its your preference i happen to be a custard guy. Not to say there's anything wrong with flan. All jokeing aside a better diet and most importantly routine master baking really does help.

22 14Answered by Bear (member of the public) 24th January 2016 (edited 4th Dec 2016)

Thank you, I've had these symptoms for years and my doctor and clinic haven't been able to help, I'll try your solutions and see how I get on

10 5Answered by Paul (member of the public) 27th January 2016 (edited 27th Jun 2016)

I get this to. It has started ever since I've had the snip, not sure if anyone else has noticed the same after becoming a Jaffa?????

8 4Answered by Tezza (member of the public) 18th February 2016 (edited 9th Jun 2016)

I'm 14 and this is happening though what should I do

9 6Answered by Rhys (member of the public) 5th March 2016 (edited 6th Feb 2017)

get checked for UREAPLASMA

7 7Answered by Doctor (member of the public) 23rd March 2016 (edited 9th Aug 2016)

I had this problem recently after masturbating less frequently. I decided to start masturbating more often before seeking medical advice. This stopped the gelatine lumps appearing

3 2Answered by Jake (member of the public) 26th April 2016 (edited 16th Jun 2016)

I have been trying to find this answer everywhere I've been searching for hours today while I was giving my boyfriend a little help I recognised these white chunks of stuff we both started freaking out. We thought it was some type on sti and we were to scared to tell our parents we need to go and get checked up as I am underaged. Should I still go and get a check up just in case?

0 0Answered by Iesha (member of the public) 18th June 2016

Do a internet search for "Amyloid polychondritis in semen".

3 0Answered by Sara (member of the public) 18th June 2016 (edited 29th Jun 2016)

Hi i am having the same problems too cause when i was younger i use to masturbate a lot 3years times a day, i have been wondering wat happen to me when i see these lumps but am glad to know am not the only one and that's normal, question dose this stop u from getting someone pregnant, and lower your sperm count?

3 0Answered by marlon (member of the public) 19th June 2016 (edited 3rd Nov 2016)

I masterbate 5 times a day im 35 years of age when was in my teen years and 20, 10 to 20 times a day so your saying my sperm is hard because I masterbate too much

0 1Answered by Oliver (member of the public) 26th June 2016 (edited 18th May 2017)

I masterbate 5 times a day im 35 years of age when was in my teen years and 20, 10 to 20 times a day so your saying my sperm is hard because I masterbate too much

0 1Answered by Oliver (member of the public) 26th June 2016 (edited 2nd Dec 2016)


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Painfull when.partner ejaculates and painful.when inside and coming out lumpy

Asked by anonymous on 4th March 2017 (in Health) • Views: 189

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Want to sperm more and more

Hi,I have been masterbating since last year but only a few drops of sperm cums out and it comes out too soon.what could be done to increase my sperm count?

Asked by rocky (aged 15) from India on 2nd February 2016 (in Other) edited by MSH • Views: 506

Tags: precum ejaculation masturbation gay

Hey guys,I just had sex just few minutes back but what shocked me is I had my 1st and my second round very well but on my third my penis just went dead in the midst of the round.So I want to know if this is normal/its a sickness or what cause am really concerned about it

0 1Answered by Kick Smack (member of the public) 7th February 2016 (edited 14th Apr 2016)

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Sperm is not coming from penis while masturbation

hi i am 21 year old. sperm are not coming from penis when i masturbation but when i sleep in bed and when there is erection i rub my penis againsts bed for 4-5 min i got my sperm. whats the promblem why sperm doesn't come when i masturbation? please have me solution

Asked by sam (aged 21) from India on 22nd April 2016 (in Health) • Views: 1193

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Hello i am 24 year old.during erection when i shake my penish for long time dperm doesnot come outside.what should i fo?is it ok or not ok?tell me the solution plzzzzx

2 3Answered by joy (member of the public) 25th April 2016 (edited 27th Jul 2017)

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Penis goes soft

i m a 21 year guy n itx been a year that m in a relation and my girlfriend and me had really enjoyed havin sex bt itx been couple of months that while having sex my dick goes soft with ejaculation or i ejaculate to quick u cn say with in a minute.itx happened so rarely in the begnings bt now its like evry time we do it i have 2 face is really emabarsing for me to go soft again and again in front my gf and she is also thinking that i am not intersted in having sex with her anymore thats why its hapning,let me mension here to that we both r also having problems in our reltionship and we just keep arguing with each other,so i just want to know that whether its a mental or sexual problem.please help me out of this situation

Asked by mr hash on 10th June 2009 (in Sex) • Views: 54907

Tags: penis ejaculation erection gay

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

The problem you feel you are having actually sounds quite normal. After a man ejaculates, his penis usually becomes soft, returning to its smaller pre-erect state. He will usually need some time to recover, before he can have another erection and ejaculation. This recovery period is called the refractory period, and generally, is quicker for younger men. Some men can have an erection immediately afterwards, some can have a few orgasms/ejaculations in a few hours, whilst others take longer to become erect again. It all falls within the normal parameters of sexual health! If you had difficulty maintaining an erection during sex, in your circumstance, the most likely cause would be mental; due to the problems you are having in your relationship. Erectile dysfunction, when your penis goes soft during when you don’t want it to, has many causes, both physical and mental and affects most men at some point in their life. To help prevent these kinds of problems in the future, you need to address your relationship issues with your girlfriend. If you've been fighting, even if you're having makeup sex, you most likely have residual worries that weigh on you that can affect you both. She may be experiencing similar feelings of worry, making it difficult for her to orgasm. If you two can work on your relationship issues, and not fight so much, it will no doubt ease the pressure you feel when you are having sex, as wedll as make life together happier! If you are finding that you ejaculate too quickly, again, your mind can play a large part in that. One thing you can try is using condoms, as they can help reduce sensitivity. There are also special condoms and lubricant you can use, that have a slight numbing effect on the penis, to help you last longer. The Delay brand, by Pasante or Performa by Durex, along with other store brands like Boots are specially made to help with premature ejaculation. These products prolong lovemaking by using a low dosage skin numbing ingredient like benzocaine, to reduce sensitivity and postpone orgasm. I hope this all helps. Please get back to us if you have any more questions or worries.

2 2Answered by team member Mara 11th October 2010 (edited 22nd Nov 2016)

Hello, I am a 57 years old, i love having sex but the last few years it is very difficult to get a erection, when i do it lt last about a minute. Even i am going ejaculate my penis is soft! that can't be normal. I have gone to specialist's and G.P's, for treatment but nothing works. i have tried viagra that doesn't work, so i am absolutely stump!! Oh yes! i have lost two previous relationships over this!

3 4Answered by michael (member of the public) 12th August 2016 (edited 11th Nov 2017)

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Solid parts in semen

Hi I noticed that there is some solid yellow things in my semen , even when i mastirbutemore time thr number of these part grows,

Asked by Karim (aged 24) from United Kingdom on 24th May 2017 (in Health) • Views: 164

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Watery fluid coming out of my penis

Sir I am a 20 year old boy. Sir I am suffering from a sexual problem. whenever I walk with my girlfriend or have simple chat with her or when I read a sex related article a watery fluid comes out of my penis. Because of this my bones have become very weak and I feel sleepy. Sir please help me to come out of this problem it is really giving me a tough time.

Asked by anonymous (aged 20) from India on 31st January 2016 (in Sex) edited by MSH • Views: 719

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Same problem is here .. Plzz tell me solution.

3 3Answered by anonymous member of the public 1st February 2016 (edited 6th Jun 2017)

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hello the fluid that is coming out of your penis is called precum and is the body's natural lubricant. It is totally normal for a person to have precum when they are with someone they find sexy or read about sexy things. Do not worry, this is not causing you any health problems, in fact it is a very natural and healthy thing to happen. 

If you are feeling tired and weak, look at other aspects of  your life. Are you stressed about work or family? Is your diet worse than it should be? Are you getting enough exercise? These things are more likely to make you feel, weak and sleepy. A few changes to your lifestyle may make you feel a lot better. 

0 0Answered by team member Douglas 2nd February 2016 (edited 13th Feb 2016)

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After sex

My boyfriend had something hard which was yellow/geeen cookie that came out with his cum, this has never happened before but he has been experiencing pain and sometimes his cum comes out very lumpy, is this something I should be concerned about?

Asked by Chloe (aged 16) from United Kingdom on 14th May 2017 (in Health) • Views: 167

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Asked by anonymous on 31st October 2017 (in Health) • Views: 19

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Weakness by seeking pennis

Hello my name is mohan Verma and I am 18 year old . Please sir as soon as possible give me the answer. Some 1 or 1.5 year from I starting seeking of pennis after I take it is in enjoying and after some year I feel weakness like I do some work I fell weakness , sometimes eye fell heavy,head also.all of this things happened by seeking of pennis.

Asked by Mohan (aged 18) from India on 3rd December 2016 (in Health) • Views: 250

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How i got my ex back

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Asked by Kathryn (aged 32) on 13th December 2016 (in Health) • Views: 268

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Where can I buy a super small penis cage

My wife is going to put me into chastity, and I need to find a suitable device. I've read that I should measure the length of my penis when flaccid, and take away about half an inch to get the right length of cage. However, my penis is only about 35mm long when it's soft and I'm sitting, and I can't seem to find a cage as short as 25mm anywhere. Can you suggest where I might find one, please?

Asked by Ed (aged 67) from United Kingdom on 23rd September 2017 (in Health) • Views: 62

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My age is15 years i adapted to doing masterrubation

Asked by anonymous on 3rd May 2017 (in Health) • Views: 161

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My penis not stand suddanly after 4 days how to treat it?

Asked by anonymous on 9th April 2017 (in Health) • Views: 193

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does masturbation result in protein loss and effect our body building?

Asked by arka (aged 23) on 29th January 2016 (in Sex) edited by MSH • Views: 493

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Response from Men's Sexual Health:

The simple answer is no. Spunk does contain a very small amount of protein but tiny compared to the intake of protein in a normal diet. You can masturbate without worry: it will not affect your body building.

0 0Answered by team member Douglas 29th January 2016 (edited 13th Feb 2016)

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Jelly lumps in semen

I've started to notice in the past 6 months or so that my ejaculation has got more of a yellowish colour and has the odd jelly lump in it. The longer I wait between enaculation the more yellow it is and more jelly lumps there is and the bigger they are. Could this be a problem with my diet or is this normal with age (im 16)

Asked by Tom (aged 18) from United Kingdom on 28th July 2017 (in Health) • Views: 92

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Addiction to manstribation and porn

I am a 20 year old guy and is addicted to porn and manstribation. it has become so worse that I eject 3-4 times a day and watching alot of porn. thus I want to stop but it is so difficult. isn't there some medical way that can help me so that I cannot get hard easily and be in the mood everyday for jerking off. please help

Asked by Zandile (aged 20) from Namibia on 7th May 2016 (in Health) • Views: 607

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i have the same problem and what is working on me is simply doing something else... i tend to listen music untill the "mood" goes away, if you can do it it will get easier over time ... well it is for me atleast...

0 0Answered by anonymous member of the public 13th August 2016