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Will masturbating stop you from getting a girlfriend pregnant

Asked by Jake (aged 20) from United Kingdom on 20th November 2017 (in Health) • Views: 79

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Penis is not Standing got to Soft

Hello I m from pakistan, in my childhood due to watching movies and interest in Sex i had done Alot of HP (Hand practices) and now from passed couple of mouths its near to my Wedding and my dick Even didn't stand from 2,3 months .. So worried what should i do ? and Which Doctor should i see and is there any cure for it.. because i m too worried about it .... Please any one Give some usefull Advice and also like for Ears we go to ENT Doctor, for Teeth we go to dentist so the same for this disease which kind of doctor should i see ??

Asked by anonymous (aged 26) from Pakistan on 19th August 2016 (in Health) • Views: 464

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Evn I have same kind of problem, my penis stand but it's too soft that I face prblm while inserting..??

0 0Answered by Amu (member of the public) 23rd September 2016

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Asked by anonymous on 31st October 2017 (in Health) • Views: 79

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Watery fluid coming out of my penis

Sir I am a 20 year old boy. Sir I am suffering from a sexual problem. whenever I walk with my girlfriend or have simple chat with her or when I read a sex related article a watery fluid comes out of my penis. Because of this my bones have become very weak and I feel sleepy. Sir please help me to come out of this problem it is really giving me a tough time.

Asked by anonymous (aged 20) from India on 31st January 2016 (in Sex) edited by MSH • Views: 801

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Same problem is here .. Plzz tell me solution.

3 3Answered by anonymous member of the public 1st February 2016 (edited 6th Jun 2017)

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hello the fluid that is coming out of your penis is called precum and is the body's natural lubricant. It is totally normal for a person to have precum when they are with someone they find sexy or read about sexy things. Do not worry, this is not causing you any health problems, in fact it is a very natural and healthy thing to happen. 

If you are feeling tired and weak, look at other aspects of  your life. Are you stressed about work or family? Is your diet worse than it should be? Are you getting enough exercise? These things are more likely to make you feel, weak and sleepy. A few changes to your lifestyle may make you feel a lot better. 

0 0Answered by team member Douglas 2nd February 2016 (edited 13th Feb 2016)

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Precum after urinating

I'm 39 years old, this morning, I masturbated, then I went to the bathroom, urinated, went to the living room, sat down, and when I sat down, I leaked Precum Why did I leak Precum after I urinated?

Asked by James (aged 39) from United States on 21st November 2016 (in Health) • Views: 539

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My Penis Foreskin Autoremoved Iam not A muslim Guy

Hello Sir I masturbte First Time When i in class "5th" And I rember The Pain of Penis I cant Touch My penis On that day Coz i felt so "Pain" Bt Now This Days I watch masturbates Videos and Saw The differnce between My Penis " My foreskin Is Removef Means My penis look like a " Cut Penis " Why ?? It Reason of Masturbate in Little Age Or etc ??

Asked by Indian Boy (aged 18) from India on 12th January 2017 (in Health) • Views: 356

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Asked by anonymous on 31st October 2017 (in Health) • Views: 74

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Weakness by seeking pennis

Hello my name is mohan Verma and I am 18 year old . Please sir as soon as possible give me the answer. Some 1 or 1.5 year from I starting seeking of pennis after I take it is in enjoying and after some year I feel weakness like I do some work I fell weakness , sometimes eye fell heavy,head also.all of this things happened by seeking of pennis.

Asked by Mohan (aged 18) from India on 3rd December 2016 (in Health) • Views: 323

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My penis gets errect at night and ejects sperm

When ever am in deep sleep my penis gets errects and sperm comes out

Asked by Ritesh (aged 28) from India on 28th January 2016 (in Sex) edited by MSH • Views: 1300

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Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hi, this is a totally normal thing to happen and shows that you are healthy and everything is working normally. When we dream our bodies react to the dreams and we can get hard-ons / erections and sometimes ejaculate (sperm comes out) as well. There is nothing to worry about, even if it is sometimes inconvenient. You could try wanking / masturbating before going to sleep this sometimes reduces sperm coming out while you sleep.

1 0Answered by team member Douglas 29th January 2016 (edited 8th May 2016)

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Addiction to manstribation and porn

I am a 20 year old guy and is addicted to porn and manstribation. it has become so worse that I eject 3-4 times a day and watching alot of porn. thus I want to stop but it is so difficult. isn't there some medical way that can help me so that I cannot get hard easily and be in the mood everyday for jerking off. please help

Asked by Zandile (aged 20) from Namibia on 7th May 2016 (in Health) • Views: 704

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i have the same problem and what is working on me is simply doing something else... i tend to listen music untill the "mood" goes away, if you can do it it will get easier over time ... well it is for me atleast...

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I am male and why my mouth start to watering when I see women giving blowjob?

Asked by anonymous on 25th January 2017 (in Health) • Views: 260

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Asked by anonymous (aged 30) from United States on 11th January 2017 (in Health) • Views: 391

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Occasional jelly like seminal discharge and a small lump

I'll keep this brief, but basically I have noticed that after peeing or sometimes just at random my penis may produce jelly like substances that are the same colour as the semen. This is not during any form of sexual act and it has never happened after ejaculation, it is always at a more random time. I have also found a small lump on the left of my groin in the fold between my groin and my leg. I am 17 so this could just be a normal spot but it doesn't share any of the symptoms that I associate with the usual spots, as there is no puss filled rise above the skin like normal, just a small area that has the same kind of hardness as a spot. I feel like I'm worrying about nothing, but even so, I'd like to know everything's okay. Ta!

Asked by Daniel (aged 17) from United Kingdom on 20th December 2016 (in Health) • Views: 383

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After sex

My boyfriend had something hard which was yellow/geeen cookie that came out with his cum, this has never happened before but he has been experiencing pain and sometimes his cum comes out very lumpy, is this something I should be concerned about?

Asked by Chloe (aged 16) from United Kingdom on 14th May 2017 (in Health) • Views: 256

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Pain in panis

Hi Sir, I'm 20 year old i have recently seen my panis is curved to left side and i didn't feel pain before and now today i masturbate and start feeling small amput of pain middle of my panis iam so worried about it i feel like urinate,i didnt feel pain during masturbution or doing another question is i naver had wet dreams i used to masturbate 3 or 4 times in a week hope you understand my english is not good thankyou.

Asked by Rehan (aged 20) from India on 7th February 2016 (in Health) • Views: 750

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Sorry forgot to fill in a answer. I would see a doctor that deals with penises a urologist would be a good start. Also I would check your balls and make sure there is no lumps in your sack. That is all I can say.

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Can cialis cause involuntary pre-ejaculation fluids at anytime without any sexual thoughts?

Asked by anonymous on 26th February 2017 (in Health) • Views: 276

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Sperm is not coming from penis while masturbation

hi i am 21 year old. sperm are not coming from penis when i masturbation but when i sleep in bed and when there is erection i rub my penis againsts bed for 4-5 min i got my sperm. whats the promblem why sperm doesn't come when i masturbation? please have me solution

Asked by sam (aged 21) from India on 22nd April 2016 (in Health) • Views: 1380

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Hello i am 24 year old.during erection when i shake my penish for long time dperm doesnot come outside.what should i fo?is it ok or not ok?tell me the solution plzzzzx

2 3Answered by joy (member of the public) 25th April 2016 (edited 27th Jul 2017)

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Penis goes soft

i m a 21 year guy n itx been a year that m in a relation and my girlfriend and me had really enjoyed havin sex bt itx been couple of months that while having sex my dick goes soft with ejaculation or i ejaculate to quick u cn say with in a minute.itx happened so rarely in the begnings bt now its like evry time we do it i have 2 face is really emabarsing for me to go soft again and again in front my gf and she is also thinking that i am not intersted in having sex with her anymore thats why its hapning,let me mension here to that we both r also having problems in our reltionship and we just keep arguing with each other,so i just want to know that whether its a mental or sexual problem.please help me out of this situation

Asked by mr hash on 10th June 2009 (in Sex) • Views: 58136

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Response from Men's Sexual Health:

The problem you feel you are having actually sounds quite normal. After a man ejaculates, his penis usually becomes soft, returning to its smaller pre-erect state. He will usually need some time to recover, before he can have another erection and ejaculation. This recovery period is called the refractory period, and generally, is quicker for younger men. Some men can have an erection immediately afterwards, some can have a few orgasms/ejaculations in a few hours, whilst others take longer to become erect again. It all falls within the normal parameters of sexual health! If you had difficulty maintaining an erection during sex, in your circumstance, the most likely cause would be mental; due to the problems you are having in your relationship. Erectile dysfunction, when your penis goes soft during when you don’t want it to, has many causes, both physical and mental and affects most men at some point in their life. To help prevent these kinds of problems in the future, you need to address your relationship issues with your girlfriend. If you've been fighting, even if you're having makeup sex, you most likely have residual worries that weigh on you that can affect you both. She may be experiencing similar feelings of worry, making it difficult for her to orgasm. If you two can work on your relationship issues, and not fight so much, it will no doubt ease the pressure you feel when you are having sex, as wedll as make life together happier! If you are finding that you ejaculate too quickly, again, your mind can play a large part in that. One thing you can try is using condoms, as they can help reduce sensitivity. There are also special condoms and lubricant you can use, that have a slight numbing effect on the penis, to help you last longer. The Delay brand, by Pasante or Performa by Durex, along with other store brands like Boots are specially made to help with premature ejaculation. These products prolong lovemaking by using a low dosage skin numbing ingredient like benzocaine, to reduce sensitivity and postpone orgasm. I hope this all helps. Please get back to us if you have any more questions or worries.

2 2Answered by team member Mara 11th October 2010 (edited 22nd Nov 2016)

Hello, I am a 57 years old, i love having sex but the last few years it is very difficult to get a erection, when i do it lt last about a minute. Even i am going ejaculate my penis is soft! that can't be normal. I have gone to specialist's and G.P's, for treatment but nothing works. i have tried viagra that doesn't work, so i am absolutely stump!! Oh yes! i have lost two previous relationships over this!

3 4Answered by michael (member of the public) 12th August 2016 (edited 11th Nov 2017)

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My penis not stand suddanly after 4 days how to treat it?

Asked by anonymous on 9th April 2017 (in Health) • Views: 267

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