Welcome to our interactive Q&As where you can ask any question that you may feel embarrassed or uneasy to ask anyone else. Please keep topics to areas we work within, e.g sexual health, general health and wellbeing, male health, sexuality, etc.

We try to answer as many questions as we can, but members of the public are also able to offer their solution/advice too, and views are entirely those of the people who post.

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My cock not gatting hard

I m noticed from last month tht when m going to do sex with my wife my cock not going hard for long time. After 5 or 6 minutes later its becom down. M not feeling good

Asked by Nick (aged 31) from India
19th December 2015 (in Sex)

Tags: penis erection gay

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

This can be quite normal when you are not feeling well. Try not to let it worry you and when your feeling better, it will probably be fine again. If problems persist its worth looking at your diet, drinking, exercise and stress levels. We need a healthy and fit body to have the best from sex too. Message us again if the problems persist.



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Answered by team member Douglas
11th January 2016

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Answered by Jaye
20th March 2016

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Addiction to manstribation and porn

I am a 20 year old guy and is addicted to porn and manstribation. it has become so worse that I eject 3-4 times a day and watching alot of porn. thus I want to stop but it is so difficult. isn't there some medical way that can help me so that I cannot get hard easily and be in the mood everyday for jerking off. please help

Asked by Zandile (aged 20) from Namibia
7th May 2016 (in Health)

Tags: erection

i have the same problem and what is working on me is simply doing something else... i tend to listen music untill the "mood" goes away, if you can do it it will get easier over time ... well it is for me atleast...

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Answered by anonymous
13th August 2016

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Masturbation from a long time ago

I am 25 years old weight 134 kg height 6 ft I think I m masturbating when I was 12 years old now I feel very tired after it I remain flaccid all time is I have loose my sex power ns what should I do to make myself strong fr sex

Asked by anonymous
18th March 2016 (in Health)

Tags: masturbation

Hello, I was in the same boat as you about six month ago.i began to search for a solution I had no idea what to believe online because everything seems to be an advertisement.I actually read a personal review about Vigrx plus for male enhancement and sexual dysfunction solution product and it seemed like the person had a great success using the product to cure tiredness, low sex drive , so i gave it a try. I couldn't have been more excited about the results as it totally eliminated my sexual problems and got my groove back.The article was very helpful to me. If you want to check the it out yourself you can read it here http://www.monthdiet.com/2016/04/how-to-get-big-dick-vigrx-plus-review_3.htm

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Answered by nappy guy
5th April 2016

Hello, I was in the same boat as you about six month ago.i began to search for a solution I had no idea what to believe online because everything seems to be an advertisement.I actually read a personal review about Vigrx plus for male enhancement and sexual dysfunction solution product and it seemed like the person had a great success using the product to cure tiredness, low sex drive , so i gave it a try. I couldn't have been more excited about the results as it totally eliminated my sexual problems and got my groove back.The article was very helpful to me. If you want to check the it out yourself you can read it here http://www.monthdiet.com/2016/04/how-to-get-big-dick-vigrx-plus-review_3.htm

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Answered by nappy guy
5th April 2016

Hello, I was in the same boat as you about six month ago.i began to search for a solution I had no idea what to believe online because everything seems to be an advertisement.I actually read a personal review about Vigrx plus for male enhancement and sexual dysfunction solution product and it seemed like the person had a great success using the product to cure tiredness, low sex drive , so i gave it a try. I couldn't have been more excited about the results as it totally eliminated my sexual problems and got my groove back.The article was very helpful to me. If you want to check the it out yourself you can read it here http://www.monthdiet.com/2016/04/how-to-get-big-dick-vigrx-plus-review_3.htm

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Answered by nappy guy
5th April 2016

Hello, I was in the same boat as you about six month ago.i began to search for a solution I had no idea what to believe online because everything seems to be an advertisement.I actually read a personal review about Vigrx plus for male enhancement and sexual dysfunction solution product and it seemed like the person had a great success using the product to cure tiredness, low sex drive , so i gave it a try. I couldn't have been more excited about the results as it totally eliminated my sexual problems and got my groove back.The article was very helpful to me. If you want to check the it out yourself you can read it here http://www.monthdiet.com/2016/04/how-to-get-big-dick-vigrx-plus-review_3.htm

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Answered by nappy guy
5th April 2016

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Misty yellow licuid

I was plasering myself and a yellow misty licuid came out So what dose that mean?

Asked by anonymous (aged 11) from France
22nd December 2015 (in Health)

Tags: yellow gay

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hello, it sounds like you have just had your first ejaculation. This is totally normal when you pleasure yourself and sounds like everything is working correctly. 



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Answered by team member Douglas
24th December 2015

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Penis gets erects too quickly...

I am 24 years old Bisexual adult. Whenever I sleep beside boyfriend or girlfriend my penis gets erects too quickly OR whenever cuddle each other my penis rises too fast. This is very embarrassing. How can I control this erection?

Asked by Dan (aged 24) from Pakistan
15th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: penis premature ejaculation erection

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

This is a totally normal reaction to being with someone you are sexually attracted to. The best way to overcome your embarrassment is to smile and talk to your partners about it. Explain that having an erection doesn’t mean you have to have sex but just shows how much you like them. The only thing that may help reduce your erections is to try and think of something non sexy when you feel an erection coming. 



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Answered by team member Douglas
18th January 2016

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Penis is not standing himself or hard its so soft.

I have over night sperming problem for long time. I also use for intimate for many time at a time 3 turns continues but its now cannot open or stand hard. Im worries

Asked by shan (aged 23) from Pakistan
13th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: penis erection

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hello, the things you are experiencing are quite normal and really nothing to worry about though I appreciate thats easier said that done. Sperming (ejaculating) at night is a very common experience for a young man, many have found wanking (masturbating) before going to bed can reduce this. 





One question: do you know if your penis is hard when you sperm in the night? If so it shows everything is functioning ok and that it is not a physical issue when you are sometimes not hard when you are intimate with someone. 





When you are with your partner try to focus on other parts of each others bodies, and build up the excitement so it's more exciting for you. Also talk about your worries with them. Try not to let it worry you: its a normal thing and will soon get better.





It is worth looking at your diet, drinking, exercise and stress levels. We need a healthy and fit body to have the best from sex too. See our section with tips of how to manage your health. I hope this helps.



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Answered by team member Douglas
15th January 2016

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Shake penis

I shake my penis one day five time..correct or not

Asked by Rajeswaran (aged 22) from Malaysia
11th April 2016 (in Health)

Tags: penis

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My penis gets errect at night and ejects sperm

When ever am in deep sleep my penis gets errects and sperm comes out

Asked by Ritesh (aged 28) from India
28th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: penis ejaculation gay

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hi, this is a totally normal thing to happen and shows that you are healthy and everything is working normally. When we dream our bodies react to the dreams and we can get hard-ons / erections and sometimes ejaculate (sperm comes out) as well. There is nothing to worry about, even if it is sometimes inconvenient. You could try wanking / masturbating before going to sleep this sometimes reduces sperm coming out while you sleep.



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Answered by team member Douglas
29th January 2016

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Want to sperm more and more

Hi,I have been masterbating since last year but only a few drops of sperm cums out and it comes out too soon.what could be done to increase my sperm count?

Asked by rocky (aged 15) from India
2nd February 2016 (in Other)

Tags: precum ejaculation masturbation gay

Hey guys,I just had sex just few minutes back but what shocked me is I had my 1st and my second round very well but on my third my penis just went dead in the midst of the round.So I want to know if this is normal/its a sickness or what cause am really concerned about it

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Answered by Kick Smack
7th February 2016

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Chlamydia, impotence and infertility

hello i am a 29 year old male, lately my libido has diminished as well as my potency has reduced to near impotence. Actually i can hardly have full erection and maintain it long like i used to. However, what worries most is that i could've lived with the horrible chlamydia for more than a year. I am worried to near death that it has turned me impotent as well as infertile. how long is "if left untreated for long"? please do advice me.

Asked by anonymous (aged 29)
25th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: horny dysfunction erection chlamydia

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hi, from your message it's clear you need to get checked out for clamydia if for no other reason that to put your mind at rest. Go to your local STD / STI / sexual health clinic (if you're in the UK you can find your closest clinic by following this link) where they will test you and treat you if you have it. If you are in UK you might be able to get a home testing kit with follow-up support.





The general advice seems to be to test each year or change of sexual partner, which would indicate that serious infertility issues take longer to emerge. As you say it has been more than a year you really should get tested.





Impotency does not seem to be associated with chlamydia and it may instead be caused by your worrying: so get tested and treated if necessary, and this will probably help with your libido issues too. Remember also the other things that can affect libido, like smoking, diet, exercise, stress, alcohol and medication. A healthy body helps build a healthy sex life. 



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Answered by team member Douglas
25th January 2016

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Pain in panis

Hi Sir, I'm 20 year old i have recently seen my panis is curved to left side and i didn't feel pain before and now today i masturbate and start feeling small amput of pain middle of my panis iam so worried about it i feel like urinate,i didnt feel pain during masturbution or doing urine.my another question is i naver had wet dreams i used to masturbate 3 or 4 times in a week hope you understand my english is not good thankyou.

Asked by Rehan (aged 20) from India
7th February 2016 (in Health)

Tags: penis size masturbation gay

Sorry forgot to fill in a answer. I would see a doctor that deals with penises a urologist would be a good start. Also I would check your balls and make sure there is no lumps in your sack. That is all I can say.

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Answered by Dave
9th March 2016

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Penis is not stand

Hi, i just got married 8 months ago. my sex life was very much ok. we intercourse every day with good feelings. Suddenly 4 days ago i realised my Penis is not standing while foreplay. I thought its normal but the next day also same thing happen. its now 4 days my penis is not stand. its not stand even 20 percent. seems no feelings in my Penis. i m worried about it that. Pls suggest me. and let me know is there is any issue.

Asked by Srikant
29th October 2013 (in Sex)

Tags: penis erection

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hello and thanks for getting in touch with us. What you are describing is a case of Erectile Dysfunction. This is when a man finds it difficult to get or maintain an erection. There are generally two types of ED, Physiological or Psychological. Physiological issues include - deterioration of the arteries (this is more common in older men), diabetes, smoking, alcoholism, overweight, hormone problems. Psychological issues include, Stress: which could be job related, money issues, relationship issues etc, Anxiety: Once a man experiences ED, he may become overly worried that the problem will happen again. This can lead to "performance anxiety," or a fear of sexual failure, and consistently lead to ED, Guilt: A man may feel guilty that he is not satisfying his partner, Depression : A common cause of ED, depression affects a person physically and psychologically. Depression can cause ED even when a man is completely comfortable in sexual situations. Drugs used to treat depression may also cause ED, Low self-esteem: This can be due to prior episodes of ED (thus a feeling of inadequacy) or can be the result of other issues unrelated to sexual performance, also Childhood abuse has been related to ED. Some men suffer with more than one of the above issues, as some of these cause some of the others to occur.

Are you able to get an erection when you masturabte alone, if you are then it probably shows that there is nothing wrong physiologically with you and this it is more of a psychological issue.

We would recommend speaking to your GP/Doctor so they can determine if it a physiological issue or a psychological issue. The best way to solve psychological ED is therapy with a professional counsellor sex therapist. Discussing you anxiety and fears and concerns will be a big step in dealing with them and overcoming them. Being open and honest with your partner will help this, and may benefit in both attending therapy. If its physiological they will be able to run the appropriate tests and prescribe the right course of treatment for this, please do not seek medications online, you risk being prescribed the wrong medicine or worse, purchasing fake medicine that could end up doing more harm than good, so please make an appointment with your own doctor. But based on what you have said in your question, its prob psychological, performance anxiety, so counselling may help. Please let us know if we can be of further help.

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Answered by team member Matt
1st November 2013

When I jack it out and the white thing is about to come out my penis hurts

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Answered by Ayaan
29th February 2016

To determine whether it is psychological you may want to focus on your train of thought.



The only thing that should be in your head is what you are going to do with your partner, the touch and feel. You can get yourself turned on if you are good at picturing things and have a good imagination.



Personally I use it both ways, this way I can control my ejaculation mentally. It prevents premature ejaculation and gets you ready faster.

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Answered by Kenn
6th July 2016

I may not have clarified enough. If you use the method I mentioned you must be able to think of specific things only. If you think "Am I doing this right?" you have failed already. My girlfriend says she can see it in my eyes clearly when I am focusing my thoughts on this.

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Answered by Kenn
6th July 2016

Which Doctor should we go to for Such Disease Could any one Tell Please ?

Like for tooth we go to Dentist, for ears we go to ENT and Which doctor should we to for such Disease ?

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Answered by Abdullah
19th August 2016

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More blood than semen

Hi i am a 28yr old male that hasnt had sex in almost a year, i have been tested 3 times already for an STD/STI but it always come back negative. All of a sudden tonight my hormones was rising and so i masterbated i actually masterbate often cause thats safer than physical sex but tonight i ejaculated blood and semen, more blood though. What can this be? From a worried man in North Carolina

Asked by Deran (aged 28) from United States
17th December 2015 (in Health)

Tags: ejaculation

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

It sounds most likely that you may have a condition called "haematospermia". There are a number of causes for this, but in a younger man it isn’t often serious. Leakage of blood into your sperm from small capillaries is the commonest cause. The blood itself can irritate the urethra (pee tube) as you ejaculate, causing some pain.





As you haven't had any recent sexual partners and you have been tested for STIs you really don't need to worry that this could be the cause of your blood.





We cannot tell you if your case is one of the rare ones which might be more serious so it would be a good idea to see your own doctor for a check. Depending on the findings you might need to see a specialist, but if nothing is found and you have had no more than 3 episodes of blood in a month, you will probably not need any treatment. In a man over 40 it is always recommended that you see a doctor for a specialist opinion.



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Answered by team member Dr Peter
9th January 2016

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Producing sperms everyday without sex

Doctor iam producing sperms without sex i want to know that if i produce sperms everyday in future any side effects will be faced by me or after marriage i can satisfy my wife or not?

Asked by Puppy (aged 17) from Kuwait
22nd December 2015 (in Health)

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

This is quite common, especially in younger men, sometimes it is a bit of precum (a natural lubricant) when you're thinking about sexy things or it can be a full cumming, orgasm / production of sperms. This is totally natural and is nothing to worry about and it will not cause any problems to you later in life. In fact is shows everything is working as it should do in a young man.



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Answered by team member Douglas
11th January 2016

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My dick

Do the gelationous lumps in my semen limit my sperm count?

Asked by Yoseed (aged 28) from Afghanistan
26th June 2016 (in Health)

Tags: penis ejaculation

Hi my name is ken and am 24 years old. I masturbate about 2-3 times a week just to get penis increase. My penis size currently is about 4.3 inches in length. I really want to grow length and girth and I have tried jelking and penis stretches. I haven't seen a change. I have been doing it for about 3 months with no change. I just get frustrated when I see no change and I rarely want to have sex but my premature ejaculation coupled with my small penis wouldn't allow me enjoy sex .this and more have been my worries until i came in contact with dr.joefel through a friend he had help before and since i contacted him my sex life changed , i grown tremendous increase in my penis and i last longer during sex all thanks to dr.joefel who sent me his herbs which i used for just 3weeks..contact him now and save your self the stress via dr.joefelspiritualtemple@gmail.com or through his company email adonkoherbalmixture@gmail.com you can also call or add him up on whats-app via +2348139452225..thanks

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Answered by kennedy
1st September 2016

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Sex problem

Sir I am 18 years old and I release sperms 5 to 6 times in a day daily so I want to know it harmful or not?

Asked by anand (aged 18) from India
13th January 2016 (in Sex)

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Don’t worry it's not harmful: it shows you're young and healthy. You might get a bit sore and tired in time but it's not a problem: just wank/release sperm less if that happens. 



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Answered by team member Douglas
13th January 2016

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Suffering from semen leakage and hair fall

Sir/maam i started masterbating when i was about 11.... I was masterbating once or twice every day and sometimes after a week.. But when i became 14 i started loosing hair and gaining alot of pimples... So i completely stopped it completely or i did it once in 2 months.... I continued this 2 years... But still i was getting night falls... Now I'm 18 pimples are controlled a bit but hair fall is still the same..... I dont talk with girls... Whenever i watch or think about sexual things something water like fluid comes out everytime.... And whenever i masterbate from the next day onwards whenever i poop semen comes out and also whenever i woke up ..... Please help me I'm very worried about I'm losing my self confidence because of this thing and hair loss

Asked by PC (aged 18)
29th May 2016 (in Health)

Tags: precum ejaculation masturbation gay

Hi my name is ken and am 24 years old. I masturbate about 2-3 times a week just to get penis increase. My penis size currently is about 4.3 inches in length. I really want to grow length and girth and I have tried jelking and penis stretches. I haven't seen a change. I have been doing it for about 3 months with no change. I just get frustrated when I see no change and I rarely want to have sex but my premature ejaculation coupled with my small penis wouldn't allow me enjoy sex .this and more have been my worries until i came in contact with dr.joefel through a friend he had help before and since i contacted him my sex life changed , i grown tremendous increase in my penis and i last longer during sex all thanks to dr.joefel who sent me his herbs which i used for just 3weeks..contact him now and save your self the stress via dr.joefelspiritualtemple@gmail.com or through his company email adonkoherbalmixture@gmail.com you can also call or add him up on whats-app via +2348139452225..thanks

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Answered by kennedy
1st September 2016

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Sperm like water

When i masturbated today,first time in couple of weeks,my sperm was like water,i had sex with my partner last sunday,and am finding it hard to get aroused resently,and its putting a strain on my relationship.

Asked by jason (aged 44) from United Kingdom
10th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: ejaculation erection masturbation

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Everyone goes though these periods and it can be caused by a variety of factors. Firstly talk with your partner and explain this is happening. It's possible life has just got in the way of sex and emotional life and you need to reconnect again; also try focusing on other parts of each others bodies. Try not to let it worry you, its a normal thing, it is worth looking at your diet, drinking, exercise and stress levels. We need a healthy and fit body to have the best from sex too. See our section with tips of how to manage your health. We hope this helps: let us know if the problems persist, or see your family doctor they can help with physical checks and counselling. 





As to your watery sperm, a persons cum can vary in many ways including volume, thickness and colour and is also affected by your diet and general well being, from your description it does not sound like something to worry about. 



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Answered by team member Douglas
11th January 2016

Hello, I was in the same boat as you about six month ago.i began to search for a solution I had no idea what to believe online because everything seems to be an advertisement.I actually read a personal review about Vigrx plus for male enhancement and sexual dysfunction solution product and it seemed like the person had a great success using the product to cure watery sperm and arousal(libido}problem , so i gave it a try. I couldn't have been more excited about the results as it totally eliminated my watery sperm problems.The article was very helpful to me. If you want to check the it out yourself you can read it here http://www.monthdiet.com/2016/04/how-to-get-big-dick-vigrx-plus-review_3.htm

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Answered by john
5th April 2016

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Pre ejaculation before sex.

Sir, i am 27 and newly married. while doing sex, liquid is coming out and my pennis is losing the temper..because of this, i fell that i dont have better end.

Asked by anonymous
24th February 2016 (in Health)

Tags: ejaculation gay

Hello,

I was in the same boat as you about six month ago.i began to search for a solution I had no idea what to believe online because everything seems to be an advertisement.I actually read a personal review about Vigrx plus for male enhancement and sexual dysfunction solution product and it seemed like the person had a great success using the product to cure pre ejaculation, so i gave it a try. I couldn't have been more excited about the results as it totally eliminated my pre ejaculation problems.The article was very helpful to me.

If you want to check the it out yourself you can read it here http://www.monthdiet.com/2016/04/how-to-get-big-dick-vigrx-plus-review_3.html

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Answered by Chris
5th April 2016

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Watery fluid coming out of my penis

Sir I am a 20 year old boy. Sir I am suffering from a sexual problem. whenever I walk with my girlfriend or have simple chat with her or when I read a sex related article a watery fluid comes out of my penis. Because of this my bones have become very weak and I feel sleepy. Sir please help me to come out of this problem it is really giving me a tough time.

Asked by anonymous (aged 20) from India
31st January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: penis gay

Same problem is here ..

Plzz tell me solution.

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Answered by anonymous
1st February 2016

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hello the fluid that is coming out of your penis is called precum and is the body's natural lubricant. It is totally normal for a person to have precum when they are with someone they find sexy or read about sexy things. Do not worry, this is not causing you any health problems, in fact it is a very natural and healthy thing to happen. 





If you are feeling tired and weak, look at other aspects of  your life. Are you stressed about work or family? Is your diet worse than it should be? Are you getting enough exercise? These things are more likely to make you feel, weak and sleepy. A few changes to your lifestyle may make you feel a lot better. 



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Answered by team member Douglas
2nd February 2016