Welcome to our interactive Q&As where you can ask any question that you may feel embarrassed or uneasy to ask anyone else. Please keep topics to areas we work within, e.g sexual health, general health and wellbeing, male health, sexuality, etc.

We try to answer as many questions as we can, but members of the public are also able to offer their solution/advice too, and views are entirely those of the people who post.

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Pain in panis

Hi Sir, I'm 20 year old i have recently seen my panis is curved to left side and i didn't feel pain before and now today i masturbate and start feeling small amput of pain middle of my panis iam so worried about it i feel like urinate,i didnt feel pain during masturbution or doing urine.my another question is i naver had wet dreams i used to masturbate 3 or 4 times in a week hope you understand my english is not good thankyou.

Asked by Rehan (aged 20) from India
7th February 2016 (in Health)

Tags: penis size masturbation gay

Sorry forgot to fill in a answer. I would see a doctor that deals with penises a urologist would be a good start. Also I would check your balls and make sure there is no lumps in your sack. That is all I can say.

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Answered by Dave
9th March 2016

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Watery fluid coming out of my penis

Sir I am a 20 year old boy. Sir I am suffering from a sexual problem. whenever I walk with my girlfriend or have simple chat with her or when I read a sex related article a watery fluid comes out of my penis. Because of this my bones have become very weak and I feel sleepy. Sir please help me to come out of this problem it is really giving me a tough time.

Asked by anonymous (aged 20) from India
31st January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: penis gay

Same problem is here ..

Plzz tell me solution.

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Answered by anonymous
1st February 2016

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hello the fluid that is coming out of your penis is called precum and is the body's natural lubricant. It is totally normal for a person to have precum when they are with someone they find sexy or read about sexy things. Do not worry, this is not causing you any health problems, in fact it is a very natural and healthy thing to happen. 





If you are feeling tired and weak, look at other aspects of  your life. Are you stressed about work or family? Is your diet worse than it should be? Are you getting enough exercise? These things are more likely to make you feel, weak and sleepy. A few changes to your lifestyle may make you feel a lot better. 



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Answered by team member Douglas
2nd February 2016

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Someone tuch my pain I lose my sperm quickly

hello, I am 25 years old man, I have very high expectations about sex, when I am with my girlfriend start kissing or huging, I get soft erection, and white liquid comes out of my penis, we keep kissing and when my girlfriend is ready for sexy my penis is soft.

Asked by Sumit (aged 26) from India
19th August 2016 (in Health)

Tags: penis ejaculation premature ejaculation erection gay

Hi my name is ken and am 24 years old. I masturbate about 2-3 times a week just to get penis increase. My penis size currently is about 4.3 inches in length. I really want to grow length and girth and I have tried jelking and penis stretches. I haven't seen a change. I have been doing it for about 3 months with no change. I just get frustrated when I see no change and I rarely want to have sex but my premature ejaculation coupled with my small penis wouldn't allow me enjoy sex .this and more have been my worries until i came in contact with dr.joefel through a friend he had help before and since i contacted him my sex life changed , i grown tremendous increase in my penis and i last longer during sex all thanks to dr.joefel who sent me his herbs which i used for just 3weeks..contact him now and save your self the stress via dr.joefelspiritualtemple@gmail.com or through his company email adonkoherbalmixture@gmail.com you can also call or add him up on whats-app via +2348139452225..thanks

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Answered by kennedy
1st September 2016

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Penis goes soft

i m a 21 year guy n itx been a year that m in a relation and my girlfriend and me had really enjoyed havin sex bt itx been couple of months that while having sex my dick goes soft with ejaculation or i ejaculate to quick u cn say with in a minute.itx happened so rarely in the begnings bt now its like evry time we do it i have 2 face that.it is really emabarsing for me to go soft again and again in front my gf and she is also thinking that i am not intersted in having sex with her anymore thats why its hapning,let me mension here to that we both r also having problems in our reltionship and we just keep arguing with each other,so i just want to know that whether its a mental or sexual problem.please help me out of this situation

Asked by mr hash
10th June 2009 (in Sex)

Tags: penis ejaculation erection gay

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

The problem you feel you are having actually sounds quite normal. After a man ejaculates, his penis usually becomes soft, returning to its smaller pre-erect state. He will usually need some time to recover, before he can have another erection and ejaculation. This recovery period is called the refractory period, and generally, is quicker for younger men. Some men can have an erection immediately afterwards, some can have a few orgasms/ejaculations in a few hours, whilst others take longer to become erect again. It all falls within the normal parameters of sexual health!

If you had difficulty maintaining an erection during sex, in your circumstance, the most likely cause would be mental; due to the problems you are having in your relationship. Erectile dysfunction, when your penis goes soft during when you don’t want it to, has many causes, both physical and mental and affects most men at some point in their life. To help prevent these kinds of problems in the future, you need to address your relationship issues with your girlfriend. If you've been fighting, even if you're having makeup sex, you most likely have residual worries that weigh on you that can affect you both. She may be experiencing similar feelings of worry, making it difficult for her to orgasm. If you two can work on your relationship issues, and not fight so much, it will no doubt ease the pressure you feel when you are having sex, as wedll as make life together happier! If you are finding that you ejaculate too quickly, again, your mind can play a large part in that. One thing you can try is using condoms, as they can help reduce sensitivity. There are also special condoms and lubricant you can use, that have a slight numbing effect on the penis, to help you last longer. The Delay brand, by Pasante or Performa by Durex, along with other store brands like Boots are specially made to help with premature ejaculation. These products prolong lovemaking by using a low dosage skin numbing ingredient like benzocaine, to reduce sensitivity and postpone orgasm. I hope this all helps. Please get back to us if you have any more questions or worries.

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Answered by team member Mara
11th October 2010

Hello, I am a 57 years old, i love having sex but the last few years it is very difficult to get a erection, when i do it lt last about a minute. Even i am going ejaculate my penis is soft! that can't be normal. I have gone to specialist's and G.P's, for treatment but nothing works. i have tried viagra that doesn't work, so i am absolutely stump!! Oh yes! i have lost two previous relationships over this!

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Answered by michael
12th August 2016

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Masturbation from a long time ago

I am 25 years old weight 134 kg height 6 ft I think I m masturbating when I was 12 years old now I feel very tired after it I remain flaccid all time is I have loose my sex power ns what should I do to make myself strong fr sex

Asked by anonymous
18th March 2016 (in Health)

Tags: masturbation

Hello, I was in the same boat as you about six month ago.i began to search for a solution I had no idea what to believe online because everything seems to be an advertisement.I actually read a personal review about Vigrx plus for male enhancement and sexual dysfunction solution product and it seemed like the person had a great success using the product to cure tiredness, low sex drive , so i gave it a try. I couldn't have been more excited about the results as it totally eliminated my sexual problems and got my groove back.The article was very helpful to me. If you want to check the it out yourself you can read it here http://www.monthdiet.com/2016/04/how-to-get-big-dick-vigrx-plus-review_3.htm

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Answered by nappy guy
5th April 2016

Hello, I was in the same boat as you about six month ago.i began to search for a solution I had no idea what to believe online because everything seems to be an advertisement.I actually read a personal review about Vigrx plus for male enhancement and sexual dysfunction solution product and it seemed like the person had a great success using the product to cure tiredness, low sex drive , so i gave it a try. I couldn't have been more excited about the results as it totally eliminated my sexual problems and got my groove back.The article was very helpful to me. If you want to check the it out yourself you can read it here http://www.monthdiet.com/2016/04/how-to-get-big-dick-vigrx-plus-review_3.htm

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Answered by nappy guy
5th April 2016

Hello, I was in the same boat as you about six month ago.i began to search for a solution I had no idea what to believe online because everything seems to be an advertisement.I actually read a personal review about Vigrx plus for male enhancement and sexual dysfunction solution product and it seemed like the person had a great success using the product to cure tiredness, low sex drive , so i gave it a try. I couldn't have been more excited about the results as it totally eliminated my sexual problems and got my groove back.The article was very helpful to me. If you want to check the it out yourself you can read it here http://www.monthdiet.com/2016/04/how-to-get-big-dick-vigrx-plus-review_3.htm

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Answered by nappy guy
5th April 2016

Hello, I was in the same boat as you about six month ago.i began to search for a solution I had no idea what to believe online because everything seems to be an advertisement.I actually read a personal review about Vigrx plus for male enhancement and sexual dysfunction solution product and it seemed like the person had a great success using the product to cure tiredness, low sex drive , so i gave it a try. I couldn't have been more excited about the results as it totally eliminated my sexual problems and got my groove back.The article was very helpful to me. If you want to check the it out yourself you can read it here http://www.monthdiet.com/2016/04/how-to-get-big-dick-vigrx-plus-review_3.htm

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Answered by nappy guy
5th April 2016

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Headache during sex

The other day me and mynlady were going at it really hard, right b4 I was about to ejaculate I got a headache so I had to stop. This has happened 4 times. Why do I get headaches

Asked by Alessandro (aged 36) from United States
9th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: ejaculation erection

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

During sex our blood pressure rises, this may be causing your headaches. You should visit your family Doctor and talk to him about getting headaches during sex, if you can’t say sex at least say during strenuous exercise and have your blood pressure checked. You should do this as soon as you can. 



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Answered by team member Douglas
11th January 2016

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Trying to conceive

My husband and I are trying to have a baby. We have been trying for 6 months but still no conception. My husband is 35 and I myself am 31. We have realised now however that when he ejaculates his sperm is not actually going inside me because a when he withdraws and pulls back his foreskin the sperm is still sitting around his penis, quite a lot of sperm as well. He believes very little, if any, is actually going inside me. We have tried numerous positions but nothing changes. We're thinking now of applying for IVF treatment but was hoping for an easier and cheaper solution?

Asked by anonymous (aged 31) from United Kingdom
6th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: foreskin penis ejaculation

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

It sounds like your husband has a tight foreskin, you say he can pull it back which is good, a little gentle stretching might help with that, below is the advice we gave to another person with a tight foreskin, we hope that helps. 





However, I would be surprised if this is the cause of your lack of conception and your best course of action is to see your GP. There are several tests that need to be done to check your and your husband's fertility and in most to of the UK, fertility and IVF assistance is free, however the amount of assistance does vary across the uk, but your starting point is your GP.



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Answered by team member Douglas
11th January 2016

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When I do potty then my genetic material come from my penis

Sir there is a problem occur with my penis is that when I do potty then my genetic material come from my penis. By this problem I feel alone and shame on me. And it's also itching in my penis. And before 2 3 days ago the genetic material come from my anal. And my backbone has also a pain due to this please help me sir

Asked by Bhagat (aged 19) from India
12th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: penis

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hello, please try not feel alone or shamed, almost every man has had some kind problems with his body and sexual parts. Looking for and getting help is the right thing to do. Every doctor will have see and spoken to men about problems with there penis and anal area, they will help you talk about it and find the right treatment for you. 





I do think you need to visit a doctor or a sexual health clinic if you have them in your area, especially if you have had sex with another person. Please let us know how you get on and what services you find in your area, I am sure others in India would like to learn from your experience too.



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Answered by team member Douglas
12th January 2016

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Hi wen i have sex suddenly ...

Hi wen i have sex suddenly i got blood from penis sudenly the outer layer skin and inner layer skin attached was separate now no mood wat i want to do

Asked by Rock (aged 26) from India
10th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: penis

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hello, It is a little bit difficult to advise you with the information you have given. If this is something new it is probably not a problem and the blood is just from the sex and can happen so don’t worry. If it happens more often then get back to us. I would also think/guess the skin sticking is just from the blood and cum drying out, a gentle wash with soap and water (in a shower or bath if possible) will help it unstick. You should wash under the foreskin every time you wash. I hope this helps.



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Answered by team member Douglas
11th January 2016

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Penis gets erects too quickly...

I am 24 years old Bisexual adult. Whenever I sleep beside boyfriend or girlfriend my penis gets erects too quickly OR whenever cuddle each other my penis rises too fast. This is very embarrassing. How can I control this erection?

Asked by Dan (aged 24) from Pakistan
15th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: penis premature ejaculation erection

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

This is a totally normal reaction to being with someone you are sexually attracted to. The best way to overcome your embarrassment is to smile and talk to your partners about it. Explain that having an erection doesn’t mean you have to have sex but just shows how much you like them. The only thing that may help reduce your erections is to try and think of something non sexy when you feel an erection coming. 



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Answered by team member Douglas
18th January 2016

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My cock not gatting hard

I m noticed from last month tht when m going to do sex with my wife my cock not going hard for long time. After 5 or 6 minutes later its becom down. M not feeling good

Asked by Nick (aged 31) from India
19th December 2015 (in Sex)

Tags: penis erection gay

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

This can be quite normal when you are not feeling well. Try not to let it worry you and when your feeling better, it will probably be fine again. If problems persist its worth looking at your diet, drinking, exercise and stress levels. We need a healthy and fit body to have the best from sex too. Message us again if the problems persist.



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Answered by team member Douglas
11th January 2016

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Answered by Jaye
20th March 2016

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Lump of clear jelly in urine stream

Hi, For the last year or two, I have had a large lump of clear jelly like substance passing during or at the end of my urine stream. Sometimes it even comes out a few minutes after urinating. I don't experience any pain during urination or ejaculation whatsoever, but am concerned as to what this could be. I have been tested for STIs and I am all clear. I briefly mentioned this to my GP and he didn't think it was anything to worry about, although couldn't give me an explanation either. Any ideas??

Asked by Jim (aged 31) from United Kingdom
1st January 2016 (in Health)

Tags: gelatine ejaculation gay sti

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

This sounds like a function of your sexual organs: the prostate produces liquids, as do the testicles it is most probably from them. You have done the right things by going to your sexual health clinic and being checked for STIs and to your GP. If the problem persists and it continues to worry you it might be worth trying to catch one of these lumps in a clean jam jar and taking it to your GP. Yes, this is much easier said than done!



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Answered by team member Douglas
11th January 2016

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Sperm is not coming from penis while masturbation

hi i am 21 year old. sperm are not coming from penis when i masturbation but when i sleep in bed and when there is erection i rub my penis againsts bed for 4-5 min i got my sperm. whats the promblem why sperm doesn't come when i masturbation? please have me solution

Asked by sam (aged 21) from India
22nd April 2016 (in Health)

Tags: penis ejaculation erection masturbation

Hello i am 24 year old.during erection when i shake my penish for long time dperm doesnot come outside.what should i fo?is it ok or not ok?tell me the solution plzzzzx

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Answered by joy
25th April 2016

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Masturbation

does masturbation result in protein loss and effect our body building?

Asked by arka (aged 23)
29th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: masturbation

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

The simple answer is no. Spunk does contain a very small amount of protein but tiny compared to the intake of protein in a normal diet. You can masturbate without worry: it will not affect your body building.



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Answered by team member Douglas
29th January 2016

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Suffering from semen leakage and hair fall

Sir/maam i started masterbating when i was about 11.... I was masterbating once or twice every day and sometimes after a week.. But when i became 14 i started loosing hair and gaining alot of pimples... So i completely stopped it completely or i did it once in 2 months.... I continued this 2 years... But still i was getting night falls... Now I'm 18 pimples are controlled a bit but hair fall is still the same..... I dont talk with girls... Whenever i watch or think about sexual things something water like fluid comes out everytime.... And whenever i masterbate from the next day onwards whenever i poop semen comes out and also whenever i woke up ..... Please help me I'm very worried about I'm losing my self confidence because of this thing and hair loss

Asked by PC (aged 18)
29th May 2016 (in Health)

Tags: precum ejaculation masturbation gay

Hi my name is ken and am 24 years old. I masturbate about 2-3 times a week just to get penis increase. My penis size currently is about 4.3 inches in length. I really want to grow length and girth and I have tried jelking and penis stretches. I haven't seen a change. I have been doing it for about 3 months with no change. I just get frustrated when I see no change and I rarely want to have sex but my premature ejaculation coupled with my small penis wouldn't allow me enjoy sex .this and more have been my worries until i came in contact with dr.joefel through a friend he had help before and since i contacted him my sex life changed , i grown tremendous increase in my penis and i last longer during sex all thanks to dr.joefel who sent me his herbs which i used for just 3weeks..contact him now and save your self the stress via dr.joefelspiritualtemple@gmail.com or through his company email adonkoherbalmixture@gmail.com you can also call or add him up on whats-app via +2348139452225..thanks

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Answered by kennedy
1st September 2016

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HIV infection

I mistakenly sleep with a girl and I wore condom, but I ddint check the expiration date YET the condom is in good shape. Also, my pennis didn't elect at all. I put my penis into her pussy n did the work for about 1 minute. As my penis did not erect I stopped it. Is there any chance I get infected by HIV?

Asked by JD (aged 26) from Cambodia
1st January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: penis penis size sti hiv

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

It is very unlikely that you have got infected by HIV, you did everything as safely as possible by using the condom. It sounds like it would be useful for you to practice putting a condom on and wanking / masturbating with a condom as this might help you stay stay erect when using one in the future. If you are still worried about HIV or other sexually transmitted infections you should visit a sexual health clinic or STD clinic. Condoms are often free from clinics too. 



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Answered by team member Douglas
11th January 2016

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Addiction to manstribation and porn

I am a 20 year old guy and is addicted to porn and manstribation. it has become so worse that I eject 3-4 times a day and watching alot of porn. thus I want to stop but it is so difficult. isn't there some medical way that can help me so that I cannot get hard easily and be in the mood everyday for jerking off. please help

Asked by Zandile (aged 20) from Namibia
7th May 2016 (in Health)

Tags: erection

i have the same problem and what is working on me is simply doing something else... i tend to listen music untill the "mood" goes away, if you can do it it will get easier over time ... well it is for me atleast...

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Answered by anonymous
13th August 2016

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Shake penis

I shake my penis one day five time..correct or not

Asked by Rajeswaran (aged 22) from Malaysia
11th April 2016 (in Health)

Tags: penis

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Penis is not standing himself or hard its so soft.

I have over night sperming problem for long time. I also use for intimate for many time at a time 3 turns continues but its now cannot open or stand hard. Im worries

Asked by shan (aged 23) from Pakistan
13th January 2016 (in Sex)

Tags: penis erection

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hello, the things you are experiencing are quite normal and really nothing to worry about though I appreciate thats easier said that done. Sperming (ejaculating) at night is a very common experience for a young man, many have found wanking (masturbating) before going to bed can reduce this. 





One question: do you know if your penis is hard when you sperm in the night? If so it shows everything is functioning ok and that it is not a physical issue when you are sometimes not hard when you are intimate with someone. 





When you are with your partner try to focus on other parts of each others bodies, and build up the excitement so it's more exciting for you. Also talk about your worries with them. Try not to let it worry you: its a normal thing and will soon get better.





It is worth looking at your diet, drinking, exercise and stress levels. We need a healthy and fit body to have the best from sex too. See our section with tips of how to manage your health. I hope this helps.



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Answered by team member Douglas
15th January 2016

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More blood than semen

Hi i am a 28yr old male that hasnt had sex in almost a year, i have been tested 3 times already for an STD/STI but it always come back negative. All of a sudden tonight my hormones was rising and so i masterbated i actually masterbate often cause thats safer than physical sex but tonight i ejaculated blood and semen, more blood though. What can this be? From a worried man in North Carolina

Asked by Deran (aged 28) from United States
17th December 2015 (in Health)

Tags: ejaculation

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

It sounds most likely that you may have a condition called "haematospermia". There are a number of causes for this, but in a younger man it isn’t often serious. Leakage of blood into your sperm from small capillaries is the commonest cause. The blood itself can irritate the urethra (pee tube) as you ejaculate, causing some pain.





As you haven't had any recent sexual partners and you have been tested for STIs you really don't need to worry that this could be the cause of your blood.





We cannot tell you if your case is one of the rare ones which might be more serious so it would be a good idea to see your own doctor for a check. Depending on the findings you might need to see a specialist, but if nothing is found and you have had no more than 3 episodes of blood in a month, you will probably not need any treatment. In a man over 40 it is always recommended that you see a doctor for a specialist opinion.



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Answered by team member Dr Peter
9th January 2016