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Precum after urinating

I'm 39 years old, this morning, I masturbated, then I went to the bathroom, urinated, went to the living room, sat down, and when I sat down, I leaked Precum Why did I leak Precum after I urinated?

Asked by James (aged 39) from United States on 21st November 2016 (in Health) • Views: 421

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Pain and discomfort in penis and after urination

Hie,feeling pain in middle of penis minutes after urination and randomly where sperm storage occurs also sought medical attention 2 courses of antibiotics to no avail. Bacterial tests done on urine are negative. Wonder what it can be because if I masterbate the pain goes and the ejaculate is gel like in appearance

Asked by anonymous on 20th January 2017 (in Health) • Views: 244

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Solid parts in semen

Hi I noticed that there is some solid yellow things in my semen , even when i mastirbutemore time thr number of these part grows,

Asked by Karim (aged 24) from United Kingdom on 24th May 2017 (in Health) • Views: 164

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Where can I buy a super small penis cage

My wife is going to put me into chastity, and I need to find a suitable device. I've read that I should measure the length of my penis when flaccid, and take away about half an inch to get the right length of cage. However, my penis is only about 35mm long when it's soft and I'm sitting, and I can't seem to find a cage as short as 25mm anywhere. Can you suggest where I might find one, please?

Asked by Ed (aged 67) from United Kingdom on 23rd September 2017 (in Health) • Views: 62

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Pain in panis

Hi Sir, I'm 20 year old i have recently seen my panis is curved to left side and i didn't feel pain before and now today i masturbate and start feeling small amput of pain middle of my panis iam so worried about it i feel like urinate,i didnt feel pain during masturbution or doing urine.my another question is i naver had wet dreams i used to masturbate 3 or 4 times in a week hope you understand my english is not good thankyou.

Asked by Rehan (aged 20) from India on 7th February 2016 (in Health) • Views: 663

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Sorry forgot to fill in a answer. I would see a doctor that deals with penises a urologist would be a good start. Also I would check your balls and make sure there is no lumps in your sack. That is all I can say.

0 0Answered by Dave (member of the public) 9th March 2016

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Penis is not stand

Hi, i just got married 8 months ago. my sex life was very much ok. we intercourse every day with good feelings. Suddenly 4 days ago i realised my Penis is not standing while foreplay. I thought its normal but the next day also same thing happen. its now 4 days my penis is not stand. its not stand even 20 percent. seems no feelings in my Penis. i m worried about it that. Pls suggest me. and let me know is there is any issue.

Asked by Srikant on 29th October 2013 (in Sex) • Views: 99845

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Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hello and thanks for getting in touch with us. What you are describing is a case of Erectile Dysfunction. This is when a man finds it difficult to get or maintain an erection. There are generally two types of ED, Physiological or Psychological. Physiological issues include - deterioration of the arteries (this is more common in older men), diabetes, smoking, alcoholism, overweight, hormone problems. Psychological issues include, Stress: which could be job related, money issues, relationship issues etc, Anxiety: Once a man experiences ED, he may become overly worried that the problem will happen again. This can lead to "performance anxiety," or a fear of sexual failure, and consistently lead to ED, Guilt: A man may feel guilty that he is not satisfying his partner, Depression : A common cause of ED, depression affects a person physically and psychologically. Depression can cause ED even when a man is completely comfortable in sexual situations. Drugs used to treat depression may also cause ED, Low self-esteem: This can be due to prior episodes of ED (thus a feeling of inadequacy) or can be the result of other issues unrelated to sexual performance, also Childhood abuse has been related to ED. Some men suffer with more than one of the above issues, as some of these cause some of the others to occur. Are you able to get an erection when you masturabte alone, if you are then it probably shows that there is nothing wrong physiologically with you and this it is more of a psychological issue. We would recommend speaking to your GP/Doctor so they can determine if it a physiological issue or a psychological issue. The best way to solve psychological ED is therapy with a professional counsellor sex therapist. Discussing you anxiety and fears and concerns will be a big step in dealing with them and overcoming them. Being open and honest with your partner will help this, and may benefit in both attending therapy. If its physiological they will be able to run the appropriate tests and prescribe the right course of treatment for this, please do not seek medications online, you risk being prescribed the wrong medicine or worse, purchasing fake medicine that could end up doing more harm than good, so please make an appointment with your own doctor. But based on what you have said in your question, its prob psychological, performance anxiety, so counselling may help. Please let us know if we can be of further help.

8 6Answered by team member Matt 1st November 2013 (edited 8th Jun 2016)

When I jack it out and the white thing is about to come out my penis hurts

2 1Answered by Ayaan (member of the public) 29th February 2016 (edited 24th Jun 2016)

To determine whether it is psychological you may want to focus on your train of thought. The only thing that should be in your head is what you are going to do with your partner, the touch and feel. You can get yourself turned on if you are good at picturing things and have a good imagination. Personally I use it both ways, this way I can control my ejaculation mentally. It prevents premature ejaculation and gets you ready faster.

0 0Answered by Kenn (member of the public) 6th July 2016

I may not have clarified enough. If you use the method I mentioned you must be able to think of specific things only. If you think "Am I doing this right?" you have failed already. My girlfriend says she can see it in my eyes clearly when I am focusing my thoughts on this.

1 1Answered by Kenn (member of the public) 6th July 2016 (edited 15th Nov 2016)

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Water drop during erection and itchy top of penis

thanks for taking your time to read this messege. i have this problem from last many years i would say. whenever i get erection in a minute drops starts coming out of my penis , which firstly effect the erection and i Cum very fast . Also the top end of my penis (Glans) are is gets very itchy which seems to me very serious bcz of that i cant enjoy erection. i did too much masturbation as well.

Asked by shah on 6th July 2011 (in Sex) • Views: 6461

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Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Thanks for getting in touch. It sounds like you are describing pre-cum, not all men get this, and those that do it can vary from just a little leak to a lot, but let me reasure you this is perfectly normall. Pre-cum is a clear fluid that emits from the tip of the penis when a man is sexually aroused, and its purpose is to act as a lubricant (please be aware this can transmit STI, HIV and can contain sperm if you are not using barrier methods such as condoms to have safe sex with). In very rare cases some men over produce this, if this is the case I would discuss with you GP if possible. Regarding the cumming very fast, this could be for various reasons, and I wouldn't say it has anything to do with your pre-cum. Many men suffer from Premature ejaculation, a recent UK survey said 10% of male population had suffered with PE at some point in their life. Another European study classed PE as lasting around 1.8 mins, and with 7.3 mins being classed as normal, would you say you fall into this first category as what you class as PE might not be PE. There are initially 4 treatments for PE - 1) Distraction method - when you are nearing climax, think about something comepletely different than whats going on. 2) Applying a delay gel to your penis, this will decrease sensitivity and hopefully improve your duration. 3) Delay condoms, this are coated with the delay gel and with the added thickness of the condom this too will help improve your duration. 4) start stop method - when alone try masterbating till u reach the point where you are going to climax but stop yourself, repeat this 3 or 4 times to build up your own self control, and then allow yourself to climax, after a few times a week doing this, you should find yourself lasting longer. Regarding the itchy end of your penis, if you masturbate too often then yes the penis could become sore, but there could also be other reasons, it could be a reaction to soap or cleaning product you are currently using, or it could be and Sexually Transmitted Infection (STI), again I would recommend going to you doctor/GP and explain your concerns and get tested as most STI's can be treated. Please get back to us if you still have any further concerns.

0 1Answered by team member Matt 7th July 2011 (edited 14th May 2016)

As far as the itchiness is concerned, you should use a creme called Man1 Man Oil. It is made just for guys who have injured themselves during masturbation or other sex acts. Simply rub it into your penis skin once a day and things will be a lot better. It's a very helpful product. Safe too. You can get it online.

0 0Answered by MikeH (member of the public) 29th November 2016

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Asked by anonymous on 31st October 2017 (in Health) • Views: 20

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Sperm comes very quickly

When mood comes to me and have sex the sperm comes out with in a min but my penis are tight and in good length

Asked by Hari (aged 20) from India on 12th November 2016 (in Health) • Views: 633

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My age is15 years i adapted to doing masterrubation

Asked by anonymous on 3rd May 2017 (in Health) • Views: 161

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I am male and why my mouth start to watering when I see women giving blowjob?

Asked by anonymous on 25th January 2017 (in Health) • Views: 214

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Yellow cum

Asked by anonymous on 17th September 2017 (in Other) • Views: 105

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Erection problem

I mastrubate regular before 8 years ago and before 1-2 years i feels my erection is not maintained during sex and i dont get morning erection or any erection at night when i am foreplay with girl then my erection is occour not very stronger and my age is just 23 and after one educulation not eerect much stronger after an hours refactory time my penis is 12cm i am watching porn during mastrubation any medicine. Work for me as a permanent treatment my testorane level is 426

Asked by Reo (aged 23) from India on 12th January 2017 (in Health) • Views: 250

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Penis ejaculate even though didn't do anything

Hi there, I'm 22 and am wondering, recently I discovered that my penis ejaculate even though I didn't do anything to it (This includes masturbating) for the past few days. At home playing games, outside hanging out with friends, going to school, and sometimes it just ejaculate. Is it a sign of unhealthiness?

Asked by Yat (aged 22) from Singapore on 28th January 2016 (in Sex) edited by MSH • Views: 492

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Response from Men's Sexual Health:

I think you are talking about a goo called precum which men can produce whenever we are sexually aroused; and this can happen a lot when we are young (even when we don’t realise we are thinking about sex). It is a natural lubricant: sticky and generally clear. This is different from ejaculating which feels much more physical and tends to come in several bursts and is usually a creamy white and can be lumpy. 

If you have had sex with other people and you are leaking a yellowy green pus-like fluid and it stings when you piss (urinate) you may have an infection and you should visit a sexual health clinic or see a doctor.

But from your description I don’t worry that there is anything wrong and it actually shows you are fit and well.

1 0Answered by team member Douglas 29th January 2016 (edited 13th Feb 2016)

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Asked by anonymous (aged 30) from United States on 11th January 2017 (in Health) • Views: 304

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Sperm is not coming from penis while masturbation

hi i am 21 year old. sperm are not coming from penis when i masturbation but when i sleep in bed and when there is erection i rub my penis againsts bed for 4-5 min i got my sperm. whats the promblem why sperm doesn't come when i masturbation? please have me solution

Asked by sam (aged 21) from India on 22nd April 2016 (in Health) • Views: 1193

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Hello i am 24 year old.during erection when i shake my penish for long time dperm doesnot come outside.what should i fo?is it ok or not ok?tell me the solution plzzzzx

2 3Answered by joy (member of the public) 25th April 2016 (edited 27th Jul 2017)

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After sex

My boyfriend had something hard which was yellow/geeen cookie that came out with his cum, this has never happened before but he has been experiencing pain and sometimes his cum comes out very lumpy, is this something I should be concerned about?

Asked by Chloe (aged 16) from United Kingdom on 14th May 2017 (in Health) • Views: 167

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Stoping the chunk in my sperm with out masturbation

Asked by anonymous on 29th August 2017 (in Health) • Views: 64

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Jelly lumps in semen

I've started to notice in the past 6 months or so that my ejaculation has got more of a yellowish colour and has the odd jelly lump in it. The longer I wait between enaculation the more yellow it is and more jelly lumps there is and the bigger they are. Could this be a problem with my diet or is this normal with age (im 16)

Asked by Tom (aged 18) from United Kingdom on 28th July 2017 (in Health) • Views: 92

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My Penis Foreskin Autoremoved Iam not A muslim Guy

Hello Sir I masturbte First Time When i in class "5th" And I rember The Pain of Penis I cant Touch My penis On that day Coz i felt so "Pain" Bt Now This Days I watch masturbates Videos and Saw The differnce between My Penis " My foreskin Is Removef Means My penis look like a " Cut Penis " Why ?? It Reason of Masturbate in Little Age Or etc ??

Asked by Indian Boy (aged 18) from India on 12th January 2017 (in Health) • Views: 284

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