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Never happened b4, penis goes soft.

Hi me n my partner have always had a healthy sex life, but atm we where having problems and n the process of over coming that and sex was still fine. Just last nyt we used the durex tingle rub 4 the 1st time n was good at the start next min he went soft and this has never happened, he said it felt like he could fel nothing n when i touched his penis it felt weird ie cold and the only wey i can describe it is flabby feelin. I also have to add he takes dbol n has 4 a wile but this week he started takin a new batch could any of this be the problem or is it me? Its made me very paranoid as its never happened b4 n i dunno wat 2 do or say...

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