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No ejaculation

Hi am André 29 years old and when am with my wife having intimacy and passion my wife can have climax or ejaculation but not me, it just get thicker (8 inch length and 3½ inch thick) it can get 4 inch thick and some times more which can be a lil bit problem for my wife who already had orgasm to keep going and to take it all. Is there any explanation or solution for me and my wife's setuation.

Asked by André
1st September 2013 (in Sex)

Tags: penis size ejaculation

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hi Andre, thanks for getting in touch about your current problem. Men and women rarely orgasm together, so sometimes it can be an issue when one partner takes longer to reach climax than the other. The two issues that seem to be arising from your situation are: that it is becoming a problem for you to reach climax and that it is becoming uncomfortable for your wife. To address your wife's discomfort, you can do a number of things. Make sure you have lubricant on hand, as prolonged sexual intercourse can without sufficient lubrication can be very painful. There are different sorts of lubricant you can try, and we highly recommend water soluable ones, which are also safe to use with condoms. We offer sachets of lubricant free to men in Swindon via our website. You can also buy them discreetly on line from a number of retailers. You can also try different sexual positions to help her be more comfortable, that keep penetration more shallow. As for the length of time it takes you to climax, there may be a psychological element to your issue, in that once your wife has reached orgasm, you may feel like you should hurry up, and this can cause stress and delay your orgasm. Try to relax and focus more on the pleasure of your intimacy and not the end result of ejaculation. If you find foreplay pleasing then engage in that for a longer period of time. The more you worry about it, the bigger a problem it may become. Hopefully, you are comfortable speaking with your wife about the issue, as this will help. The more open an relaxed you are, the better it will be to work together to ensure you are both happy and satisfied. We hope you find these suggestions helpful. If you have any further questions, please get back in touch.

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Answered by team member Mara
3rd September 2013

Thanks ... I tried few tips of yours and it's not i like i worry about my problem but the thing is it feels wrong while watching my wife suffering though am trying at the same time helping her to help me that kinda of setuation she kind feel sorry for me that she is done about 2-4 times but nothing for me. I maneged to live with my setuation but my wife keep pushing it and frankly she live pain. Once again thank you for your respond and i will keep trying

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Answered by André
8th September 2013

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