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Penis size in porn and self confidence

watching porn is taking my self confidence to please my gf just because my 5.5 inch dick is not as big as those porn stars with 10 or more. now this feeling is changed from wishing to have a big dick to getting fuck by a big dick instead nd i start wathing gay porn just for the fantacy of getting fucked. i am straight but this gay feeling is worrying maself where am i heading ?? please help . thnx

Asked by sam
20th February 2013 (in Sex)

Tags: penis penis size gay

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Thanks for getting in contact with MSH. Penis size is one of the most common questions we get asked about on the Q&A, as it is one of the most popular concerns men heave, and nearly all have wished theirs was bigger during some point in their life. A lot of it can be due, like yourself, to watching porn and seeing how big other men are, but the men in porn tend to always be very well hung, its just the way the porn industry seems to work. But yes this can have a knock on effect on many mens confidence seeing this. Some men are so unsatisfied it can cause them great distress and make them seek out ways to increase their size. Please ignore any adverts you find on the internet, in magazines or emails claiming to make your penis bigger via any form of pills, you could be putting yourself in more harm and these pills do not work. The only way to change the size of your penis is through surgery and this is extremely risky and could result in you unable to get an erection. The male penis comes in all shapes and sizes, all over the world there are different sizes, for example in India the average size is 4 inches, the UK is 5.5 and the congo in Africa is 7. So you are in fact average for the UK. We are all built differently and never let someone make you feel inadequate with what you have, people fall in love with the person not the penis. There are many different positions you can try with a partner so that you are both sexually satisfied, experiment and see what works best for you.

Regarding your feelings and thoughts of being penetrated by another man, this doesn't mean you are gay or bi, we all have different fantasy's and desires, and how we chose to go about exploring these is down to the individual. I'm sure a lot of men may have had that thought cross their mind at when watching porn, not all men, but some, and some probably didnt do anything about it, others may have explored that desire and experimented, maybe with probing their anus with their own finger, or maybe even buying a dildo. But you may when you feel comfortable to try it with a man, and it may be something you enjoy or in the end you don't. But do remember if you do explore this with another guy, to use plenty of lube and condoms as anal sex is a more risky type of sex and puts you at more risk from catching an STI or HIV, so always be safe.

You may benefit from some form of sexual counselling regarding your confidence and discussing these sexual fantasy's, and if you live in Swindon please get in touch as we offer a free counselling service. I hope this has put your mind at ease a bit, but please do get back in touch if we can be of further support or advice

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Answered by team member Matt
22nd February 2013

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