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Does anal sex get easier after time?

i'm a bisexual man of 44, never had sex with a man until recently and my first time having bum sex was bad, he's a big guy (bout 10 inches in length), much older than me (81)and much more experienced.when he did get it in me i cried out in pain,he told me to shut the fuck up or find some lubricant,he now wants to get all his old school mates around to have a go soon,my question is,. do i use the old engine oil in the garden shed or some out of date lard to help all the old boys get in? or will it just get less painful with more i get?

Asked by max
9th December 2012 (in Sex)

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You can buy lube from any supermarket(& condoms). Personally I'd advise you to find someone a bit more considerate. Don't let yourself be used by a load of dirty old men, there're lots of decent guys out there if you look. Get online & find someone who actually cares about you & you'll find it easier to relax. Relaxation & taking it bit by bit is key. And remember, nobody has the right to force you to do anything you don't want to do. There're many ways of giving & receiving pleasure.

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Answered by S.
9th December 2012

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