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Penis erect problem

im 28 year single young man i did masturbate three times a day since i was 18 years now my penis not erect when i want to sex with a girl

Asked by jan
11th December 2012 (in Sex)

Tags: penis masturbation

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hello and thank you for contacting MSH. Although masturbation is normal and healthy, if you are doing it 3 times a day every day for the past 10 years, your may have developed a psychological dependency on it, and that is what is preventing you from not getting an erection when having sex.

Erectile dysfunction (unable to maintain an erection) occurs in most men at some point in their life, the cause is usually either a physical issue, or psychological issue. For example some Physical issues include - deterioration of the arteries (this is more common in older men), diabetes, smoking, alcoholism, overweight, hormone problems. And some Psychological issues include - anxiety/nerves, relationship problems, depression, exhaustion, stress, childhood abuse. Other than saying you Masturbate a lot, there could be other reason behind your inability to get a erection when having sex. If you are able to get an erection when masturbating but not when having sex, it points towards this being nothing wrong with you physically, that it is indeed something psychological. We would suggest seeking therapy/counseling and if possible with a counsellor who is trained/knowledgeable is sexual therapies as they will be able to work with you and hopefully reduce your dependency on masturbation so you are able to maintain erections when having sex. If you live in the Swindon area please get in touch as we can provide a free counselling service. Any more concerns or questions please get in touch.

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Answered by team member Matt
11th December 2012

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