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Penis erection problem

Sir I have done sex with my girlfriend for the very first time. Ido not have any sex experience before this. I enjoyed sex for the first time with perfect erection,but when started for the second time after 2 hours I m not able to get erection also that I m not able to erect the whole day,but the next day when I watched porns I get an normal erection but during intercourse l m not able to erect frequently my penis becoming low kindly help me regarding.

Asked by sunil am
10th June 2009 (in Sex)

Tags: penis erection

realx there is nothing to worry about it happens it just that you are nervous don't think about it and when you have sex next time tell your partner/gf to help you to relax maybe even some oral

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Answered by André
1st September 2013

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hello and thanks for getting in contact with us. Many men suffer with some form of erectile dysfunction at some point in their life, and this can be due to many different reasons, but either do to physiological issues, or psychological issues. Based on the fact you have had sex and you have got hard during porn, I doubt it is anything physiological and your issue is more psychological. Like Andre says above, it sounds like you may be suffering mild performance anxiety. This is where the nerves,stress,pressure to perform again worrys you so much that you either lose or cant get an erection. Again many men suffer with this at some point, the more you worry it will happen again the more likely it will. Take your time, talk to your partner, explain your fears/worries, being open and able to discuss them should ease your nerves, enjoy foreplay before hand, explore each others bodies and if it happens again, don't worry, just accept its happend, having discussed it with your partner they will understand and with time you should get over this anxiety. You may find talking to a professional sex therapist a help if the problem persists. We hope this has helped.

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Answered by team member Matt
5th September 2013

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