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Pre ejaculation

I've been with my girlfriend for three months and we've talked about having sex and we both want to. But every time we get close to having it I either cum in my pants or am about to. If she even touches me I feel like I'm going to cum in my pants. What do I? How can I fix this? I want to have sex so bad.

Asked by Kevin
21st May 2013 (in Sex)

Tags: ejaculation

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hello Kevin, thanks for getting in touch with MSH. Many men suffer from Premature ejaculation, a recent UK survey said 10% of male population had suffered with PE at some point in their life. Another European study classed PE as lasting around 1.8 mins, and with 7.3 mins being classed as normal. Obviously yours in fairly serve case of PE as you cum before stating sex. There are initially 4 treatments for PE - 1) Distraction method - when you are nearing climax, think about something comepletely different than whats going on. 2) Applying a delay gel to your penis, this will decrease sensitivity and hopefully improve your duration. 3) Delay condoms, these are coated with the delay gel and with the added thickness of the condom this too will help improve your duration. 4) start stop method - when alone try masterbating till u reach the point where you are going to climax but stop yourself, repeat this 3 or 4 times to build up your own self control, and then allow yourself to climax, after a few times a week doing this, you should find yourself lasting longer. Solution number 4 is prob goning to help the most, the longer you can last on your own, the more chance you can use this skill with your gf. You don't mention how old you are, or if this is the first time its happend, but I'm assuming your fairly young and this is possibly your first time. This is again common with young lads who are overly sexually excited,just the thought of having sex can lead to PE. Please try the method listed above and we hope that helps. Also the penis will naturally lose erection most times after ejaculation, but after a short period of rest time, some men are able to get erect and and will find the second time it takes longer to ejaculate. Please get back in touch if you need to, we hope this has helped.

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Answered by team member Matt
22nd May 2013

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