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Never happened b4, penis goes soft.

Hi me n my partner have always had a healthy sex life, but atm we where having problems and n the process of over coming that and sex was still fine. Just last nyt we used the durex tingle rub 4 the 1st time n was good at the start next min he went soft and this has never happened, he said it felt like he could fel nothing n when i touched his penis it felt weird ie cold and the only wey i can describe it is flabby feelin. I also have to add he takes dbol n has 4 a wile but this week he started takin a new batch could any of this be the problem or is it me? Its made me very paranoid as its never happened b4 n i dunno wat 2 do or say...

Asked by claire
5th March 2012 (in Health)

Tags: penis erection

Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Hi, thanks for getting in touch. Many men at some stage in their life will encounter erection problems for one reason or another, and its either a psychological problem, or a physiological problem that is causing this. You say this is the first time its happened to him, but start by saying you are having problems and process of over coming them, if he is feeling at all pressured/stressed/inadequate this could be having a knock on effect and be causing his erectile dysfunction. Regarding his dbol usage, it is not stated as a side effect, however other users have suffered a loss of libido (sex drive) and erections when taking this, as it can result in lowered levels of testosterone, however you say he's been taking it a while and this is the firs time its happened, does he find he has strong erections when he masterbates? Does he feel is sex drive has decresed?. A few ideas, maybe get him to refrain from taking dbol for a while if this is possible to see if he's levels pick back up. Going back to your opening line, have you thought about counselling to help work past whatever issues there as, as like I said if this is playing on his mind, it could be what is causing his loss of erections. Feel free to get back in touch if you have any more info or questions about this. I hope things improve for you both in the near future.

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Answered by team member Matt
5th March 2012

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