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Response from Men's Sexual Health:

Thanks for getting back in touch with us. As we previously said "Regarding your sexuality, many many kids experiment as they grow up with their friends, this is perfectly normal, and doesn't mean your gay. It can take a while for some people to work out what they enjoy sexually and this period of experimentation can help work towards figuring this out in the long term. Being gay should not be looked upon as being a negative, yes in some countries, cultures & religions it has been stigmatized, but don't let this ultimately influence who you really are, you may be gay, you may be bisexual or still in a period of confusion. I think if you can find a sexual therapist to discuss this with further in detail in confidence it would help greatly. We offer this service for free if you live in Swindon"

The fact you watch gay porn, shows that you find these images sexually exciting, this doesn't necessarily mean you are gay, just the act of the sex that turns you on, it dosnt mean you want a relationship with a man, just enjoy sex with one, many many men do this. You may be bisexual, but I do think talking to a professional therapist would be of great benefit to you, they are confidential and will not pass your information on to anyone. We hope this has helped you, please let us know of any further advice or support we can offer

Answered by team member Matt
1st October 2013